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Paula99 - 02 Oct, 2023 - 11:18AM

I agree with Dotty ..

It’s the only way ….have coffee a couple of times and go from there …..bit old fashioned but hey if it ain’t broke don’t fix it …😁

1529050 - 02 Oct, 2023 - 09:59AM

For me the only way to tell is ... erm meet them !

I do prefer an early meet and those I have met within a week or two of chatting have been the ones who have worked out.

By meeting I mean a coffee or drink - and for me I will do that a couple of times to make sure this is the right person for me.

Ineedmoree - 29 Sep, 2023 - 08:59PM

I'm also feeling this x

Legs&Eyes - 28 Sep, 2023 - 07:42PM

Beckysharp - 28 Sep, 2023 - 06:38PM

You need to be on there for a few weeks to really feel and get the whole experience, in all its scum-bag glory. 🙈🤣

And it’s very driven by a photo, little space available for a bio or relevant info. So sifting the wheat from the chaff is painful!! 🤣

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1408586 - 28 Sep, 2023 - 06:38PM

That’s what I assumed. Plus had seen from friend’s experience. And they’re in 30s/40s. I’m sure it only gets more grim!

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Legs&Eyes - 28 Sep, 2023 - 06:13PM

Beckysharp - 28 Sep, 2023 - 11:55AM

The 'quality' (lol....) is a lot better here.

Lots of guys on Tinder want casual, hook-ups and f**k buddies. Also, as its free, its loaded with scammers, multiple profile-guys, fakes (in other words, what some of the guys here say about some of the ladies here - I presume for the same reason in that it is free here for ladies so attracts all types)...

And that's not what I'm looking for... the single guys who DO want something more than casual - well they sit there on their sofas taking profile pics with last nights baked beans down their t-shirts and proudly declare themselves as 'unemployed'. And there's no bit of me thats that desperate! Haha.....

So - this is the better place for me...

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1408586 - 28 Sep, 2023 - 11:55AM

Is the ‘quality’ better on here L&E? I assume lots of single men on tinder are happy for an affair type arrangement?

Legs&Eyes - 28 Sep, 2023 - 07:42AM

Sandypops

No problem. Apology not necessary…. We just all walk in our own shoes, not in anyone else’s…. So Exotic is right - other females my own age judge my ‘single status’ …. And whilst Tinders socially acceptable now, this site isn’t. 🙈

And it’s why when anyone here makes sweeping statements about singletons, it’s somewhat disappointing - as my reasons for being here are unique to me… and I still have to lie, deceive and hide it from those closest to me - just the same as others on here….

We all walk our own path…. 😘

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Alexis162 - 28 Sep, 2023 - 06:51AM

Only way to find out is by setting up a dates then decide sometimes people are easy to read the first time you meet up you know exactly where you stand just from taking to your new mate good luck xx

ExoticOrchid - 27 Sep, 2023 - 09:29PM

Sandypops - 04:51PM

No apology needed.
It would be social suicide ... not exactly something I can announce at a dinner party like "hey everyone, I'm on an adultery site" 🤣

As a divorced woman amongst the (unhappy but smug) marrieds, the wives are already worried about me ... not that I'll even look at their husbands as potential IEs 🙄 ... I've already heard everything about them!

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