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marcusryan - 21 Apr, 2020 - 02:57PM

To the ladies out there... I have this fantasy. Some might call it weird. In this fantasy, me and the lady initially chat for a while and get to know each other. But we don’t exchange pics or see each other. I book a hotel room for the night, will let you know the details. You come at night. The room is very dark. Can’t see each other. We then make love and we both depart without seeing each other.

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SAYSomething x - 21 Apr, 2020 - 02:54PM

@ WJ2512 - i couldn't bear watching him wearing his own washing lol, gotta help the hubby represent :'D

But in all seriousness, that's ok, home life is what it is, I just need a break from the day to day monotony that's become life in this lockdown.

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1376887 - 21 Apr, 2020 - 02:54PM

I’m wondering if more people will have affairs after this is over, as they’ll figure life is too short.

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SAYSomething x - 21 Apr, 2020 - 02:50PM

@ Queenbee34 it really depends on who you're talking to babe. If he's ghosted you he isn't worth it! You'll know it's the right connection when you see it, trust me. We're all adults here, a few weeks not being able to meet is as often as some close friends I regularly only get to see every couple of months. Relax, you'll find him in due course ;-)

1117169 - 21 Apr, 2020 - 02:50PM

The situation will drastically polarise relationships at home. Some will rediscover and appreciate their partners again, probably motivated by the need to keep the peace and the preservation of sanity more than anything, but most of us here will find the current enforced " Ground Hog Day" domesticity almost intolerable I suspect.

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WJ2512 - 21 Apr, 2020 - 02:48PM

@ feeling frisky stop doing his laundry.
If he’s there in lockdown too then give him the instructions to the washing machine.
It is hard adjusting- I’m lucky as a key worker I still get out to work even if it’s only at about 50%. But it still means hours at home when you can’t even do normal stuff - still alcohol is great and never have to worry about getting up too early 🤣

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1328172 - 21 Apr, 2020 - 02:46PM

I don't think lockdown is good , been ghosted now , I think it's cos we talk too long before meeting

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Bob100 - 21 Apr, 2020 - 02:46PM

Everybody should iron their own clothes with one person washing and drying and if they are not by the wash machine on a Friday night they miss the wash Sat am.

Scooby to you - 21 Apr, 2020 - 02:43PM

Glad your able to show your true self, you sound absolutely lovely. As you said his seen you at your worst and by the sound of it things will just get better.

My last affair was very similar to yours and I was with him for six years. Sometimes there isnt enough time to get dressed up, have to be honest I dislike video chat only because I end up making a twit of myself! Whatever your doing carry on, its working . . . . . .

Wish you all the best
Everyone keep safe
XxxX

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Bob100 - 21 Apr, 2020 - 02:43PM

Lockdown has demonstrated to me my mix of good and not so good fortune, what a nice home I have, varied interests, financial security, teenagers, wife who is easy to live with
but still the same void of warmth, mutual admiration, interest,, and intimacy.

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