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1333371 - 15 Aug, 2020 - 04:40PM

@londonlady

“Ok so the subject of time wasters
Been on and off site over past year and basically no one has thought through actual reality of having such a relationship

Well if that's not a sweeping generalisation”

Yes, it is... I think so long as you both have ground rules, and you stick to them, you can have a fabulous relationship. I don’t see anything wrong with meeting up a couple of times a month, provided there’s regular communication.

1333371 - 15 Aug, 2020 - 04:13PM

It can be a bit of a minefield, so, be selective about who you open a conversation with. I try to steer clear of generic profiles, wherever possible, as they don’t actually tell you too much about the other person.

Be honest and polite... Build up a rapport and healthy conversation (as much as you can on this site anyway)... If you feel comfortable, you can move your conversation to a more conducive medium, like KIK... all things going well, then roll on the good times...!

1403561 - 15 Aug, 2020 - 02:57PM

Hi, just joined, some good tips and advice here for settling the nerves

ExoticOrchid - 15 Aug, 2020 - 12:05PM

sweetipie77 - 15 Aug, 2020 - 09:22AM
"I love the messages that are chatty in general to start with not straight in to the nitty gritty"

Couldn't agree more!

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sweetipie77 - 15 Aug, 2020 - 09:22AM

I would say don’t push your ie to come off here and chat somewhere else, unless you’re comfortable doing so obviously. I love the messages that are chatty in general to start with not straight in to the nitty gritty 😂

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ExoticOrchid - 15 Aug, 2020 - 09:16AM

SaSa31 - 09:10AM

Good for you.
Anyone sane would just be thankful and take precautions just in case ... he's taking unnecessary risks. Stupid.

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SaSa31 - 15 Aug, 2020 - 09:10AM

He did start questioning me wanting evidence and asked for my password but I decided I wasn't playing along with him.

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ExoticOrchid - 15 Aug, 2020 - 09:07AM

SaSa31 - 09:01AM

You've done all you can ... it's his problem that he doesn't believe you. What an idiot he is.

The important thing here is to make sure *he* doesn't figure out who *you* are!

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SaSa31 - 15 Aug, 2020 - 09:01AM

If you recognise someone by their photo what should you do?
I tried to politely tell a fellow IE user that I did and actually knew his wife but he didn't seem to believe me!!!

Ha1234 - 11 Aug, 2020 - 01:31PM

@ExoticOrchid

True....i was probably thinking of body parts....why we're here i guess.
Believe this is polite society so won't post any more on this subject....

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