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ExoticOrchid - 04 May, 2020 - 09:12PM

Serialencounter

Correct. I always knew. Most men here like to say my wife doesn't know ... actually they do but are not saying anything ... yet!

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1373861 - 04 May, 2020 - 09:11PM

Can I answer that one when I find someone on here :)

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1328172 - 04 May, 2020 - 09:09PM

Not really haha

ExoticOrchid - 04 May, 2020 - 09:08PM

t_c_m_ ... ditto!!!

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sensualembrace - 04 May, 2020 - 09:07PM

Provided that you are emotionally mature, in many cases it most certainly does. Sadly we are creatures who need excitement, flattering and indulgence in the ways of Eros.

Familiarity and complacency is without doubt, the enemy of sexual excitement and even though it is often possible to maintain a degree of mutual passion, for the main part, it is a reality that this can wither and all too often be the reason for otherwise happy people to part ways.

Right or wrong, if the ability to satisfy your inner self will help you to remain in an otherwise happy relationship, then there is definitely a logical reason for seeking to satisfy those heeds extra-maritally.

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1272141 - 04 May, 2020 - 08:16PM

You might think so, but it's not without its inherent risks. Eg showing more affection than your partner is used to, raising suspicions etc.
Having an ie helps, but equally you are on alert against yourself.

Also there is condition of having two upset women to deal with, when only one might well have been the better situation.

So you create a new type of relationship with your partner. Vaguer, more distant and so on.

But most women have a good intuition and will know. You just havent brought irrefutable proof to the door so she doesnt have to act on it. Shes factored it in, for now.........

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1375686 - 04 May, 2020 - 07:51PM

Don't all jump in at once folks........

1360612 - 04 May, 2020 - 06:52PM

If the affair develops sexually then yes as that is generally the missing ingredient in the marriage, hence most say they don't want to change things but.............ie the sex is missing

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tea_coffee_me_ - 04 May, 2020 - 05:23PM

For some people they do.

When my ex was having an affair he was always more nasty to me :-(

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Bob100 - 04 May, 2020 - 04:42PM

Yes, as I am not making unappreciated sexual advances towards her, she is surprised but not disappointed when her very occasional lukewarm sexual advance towards me is not
reciprocated.

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