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Hi all I'm new to this and never cheated before. Does it get easier?

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Samuelsamuel - 20 Dec, 2023 - 11:50PM

Hello everyone! I'm new here and just looking for one person to share my energy with. I believe there's someone here for me, ready to connect and make this experience even more meaningful.






Samuelsamuel - 20 Dec, 2023 - 09:06PM

I'm a newcomer here, eager to connect with someone and share positive energy. Let's embark on this journey together!


Silversurfer69589 - 10 Dec, 2023 - 02:06AM

Just joined....be gentle...lol...I want to see a woman who I would like to have regular nookie with, but I love my partner and don't want to destroy her emotionally or finish our relationship. We have been together for more than 9 yrs but haven't had destruction love for the last 7. I need someone to release my tension ....what do I do?


1632457 - 09 Dec, 2023 - 11:04PM

Shoot me down, but there are probably different levels of cheating?

There are the people who miss the connection, the spark and want that soulful connection.

There appear to be others who have a specific idea in what they are looking for, which I think in some way is better for all concerned.

But at the end of the day, you are here because you don't have what you want or need, plain and simple.

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AllyQT - 09 Dec, 2023 - 08:16PM

Equally New to this.. i think IE is about finding that sense of yourself again… how that connects with others will be different and if both find a connection…. Who knows where next


1575033 - 09 Dec, 2023 - 07:17PM

Can we avoid the word "cheating" apart from being a terrible Americanism, i it tends not to
describe ( in my view) what a IE is, more than "swinging" more than a quick "Cheat" more
a parallel, compartmentalised friend who you also have intimacy and sex with.
That's my advert over........

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Browneyeboy - 09 Dec, 2023 - 06:38PM

I’m new to all this too. I met someone recently which made me realise what I was missing. Easier? Maybe. I think it’s always going to be a little awkward tho.


Roadrunner105 - 08 Dec, 2023 - 10:57PM

First time for me, however if both parties are not out to hurt anyone and are fulfilling a void in each of their relationships not cheating?

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Paula99 - 06 Dec, 2023 - 10:32AM

Whatever word we choose to describe our intentions on here …cheat …affair …knocking off …it all means the same thing …

We are looking for the ‘ elements’ that are missing in our lives ..

We only live once …stay safe 😁

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Farz776 - 05 Dec, 2023 - 09:30PM

I'm new to this too don't want to use the word cheat due to the circumstances we are here for .

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