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MindHer - 24 May, 2020 - 10:24AM

Boiling water. Or a big hammer.

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tea_coffee_me_ - 24 May, 2020 - 09:58AM

I find the lying in the first message, and the insults in the second quite entertaining.

Many just message without reading an obviously thought out written profile.
ALWAYS READ THE PROFILE !!! Often there is information in there that shows you are both incompatible!! Time saved, less grumpy to others!

So I receive a message saying ' I read your profile / really liked your profile and so would you like to chat?'.

I reply with re read it and follow its instructions, with fluffy words so more polite.

The next message 'I don't have time to read all that rubbish' etc etc usually more impolite.

Many discussions about lies, however do not trip up with your first message, a COMPLETE waste of both of your times!

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pkash78 - 24 May, 2020 - 09:49AM

That is exactly my point .. with women it is impossible to group them into one set .. impossible to have them like the same thing .. the same approach.. they are independent.. diverse .. it is their nature.. every woman is different .. with different likes and do’s and donot’s .. generalising or air brushing them all. Is difficult ... virtually impossible..

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1328828 - 24 May, 2020 - 09:41AM

jonsouth2020 - 24 May, 2020 - 09:26AM

Gifts can be a way into conversation, I always reply to a received gift but rarely do I reply to a VK. It amazes me how many men who send a gift then disappear. I’ll thank them or add a relevant comment then they’re gone never to be heard from again!

I do prefer a personal message and not just ‘Hi, want to chat?’

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jonsouth2020 - 24 May, 2020 - 09:26AM

@pkash78 gifts for women? "Here is a completely valueless string of symbols on a screen". Utterly pointless

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1366769 - 24 May, 2020 - 09:18AM

In my opinion, the worst thing is when there is no conversation.
Hi, how are you? I like your profile. And that's it.
Just pleasantries and nothing else. What's that all about? How are you going to figure out if you are missing the best IE ever (lol) if you dont converse really? And VKs. No message, just VK.

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pkash78 - 24 May, 2020 - 09:18AM

For men.. anything..
for women.. I am not sure they will an agreement of what is the best way.. some like gifts. Some like straightforward asking out.. some what consider that rude and too straightforward.. some what want a platonic conversation and other would consider that too boring for them.. and other would prefer a more saucy / sexy approach.. others would consider this a pervert / too forward / rude approach..
trust you can never get it right with women from the first time. Their beauty is in their diversity.. uncertainty ..

Men are too predictable. Drop him a line.. and he’ll spill the beans / take the lead / hit the road..

A woman.. is a bit more delicate and complicated ..

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