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MatureWorcsBBW - 30 May, 2020 - 01:09AM

Having an affair with a married man immediately after my divorce, taught me how to compartmentalise the people in my life.
I have different friends for different reasons and different occasions.
None of them need to know everything about me.
I don't need to know all there is to know about them either.

All WE need to know is that we like the company of one another when we're together and the rest should remain something of a glorious mystery.

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gemini2310 - 26 May, 2020 - 10:16PM

pkcash78 takes time it will happen for you

pkash78 - 26 May, 2020 - 09:03PM

lucky you guys..
can’t say much.. not successful yet.. 😂

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Telluha - 26 May, 2020 - 07:59PM

My IE taught me carp fishing! It was a great time and we have a lot of happy memories including one particular time in the bivvy during a thunder storm ; )

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tea_coffee_me_ - 26 May, 2020 - 07:02PM

" tender_rock - If learning ballroom dances count as a lifestyle change then yes."
- depending how that goes, give latin a try, often easier... more fun.
Sometimes classes teach both.

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Buffalo King - 26 May, 2020 - 06:17PM

Having an affair didn’t change my life as I am still in that same situation. However having an affair did change my outlook on life and about myself. I felt needed and wanted and in return I knew those same feelings were reciprocated. At times I felt like a teenager and probably at times acted like one . Hearing that special ding on your phone when you received a message, made the feelings of butterflies in your stomach and you could hardly contain yourself not to jump up with such joy that others thought you were loosing the plot.
Sadly it ended and now I am back to my ordinary life, but for a brief moment I was alive.

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AA1RON - 26 May, 2020 - 05:43PM

Made me feel more alive again after a nightmare of a marriage.. I felt more motivated to do all the things that I used to and more. Nicer feeling wanted by someone and wanting them.. I made more of an effort in my appearance and also being with my IE added a bounce in my step and excitement. This was only because she was so nice and we connected. All good things come to an end. I only wish it could have been a long term affair and not short term.

Those still waiting I hope you do find a nice suitable IE because I know how frustrating the waiting process is. Here I am waiting again and it seems to be more painful than last time!

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tender_rock - 26 May, 2020 - 04:49PM

If learning ballroom dances count as a lifestyle change then yes.

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1328828 - 26 May, 2020 - 03:59PM

Not a lifestyle change as such but I certainly gained a lot of self confidence.

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There and back - 26 May, 2020 - 03:50PM

Still waiting for one...affair that is....not a lifestyle change lol

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