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EmnEm123 - 03 Jul, 2022 - 10:06PM

Diana84

When you have all your issues sorted contact him and ask if he has a friend who isn't as big a twat as him!

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ExoticOrchid - 02 Jul, 2022 - 04:46PM

No wonder men aren't "honest" about things here ... 🤣

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Paula99 - 02 Jul, 2022 - 03:35PM

Diana 84..

Put it down to experience...

You found out the hard way but at least you know...what a complete arsehole ?

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Delicious Chaos - 02 Jul, 2022 - 01:56PM

Diana84

Where were you staying, The Ritz?
I’ve never heard such a thing. A hotel contact in you by phone to see if you wanted an upgrade. That’s not to say it doesn’t happen.
Don’t use your actual telephone number would be my advice to you. Most hotels communicate via email.

The bloke…well I give him a gold star for his honesty but I hope you told him to go do his own leg work

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Diana84 - 02 Jul, 2022 - 01:39PM

I have just had to share my experience…..I am shocked.
After chatting we decided to meet , it was obvious we were both looking for the same thing and definitely not wanting to rock anyone’s lifestyle.
Anyway it all went pear shaped after our first meet……..the hotel I booked for our next meet rang me to offer me a king size room ……this while I’m at home with my husband. Obviously he was suspicious as much as I tried to deny the call was for me.
Then I had damage to my car so waiting for replacement . Plus a couple of other blips. It just seems one thing after another so it was decided to lie low for a while.
So today he’s agreed on that and asked if I had a friend interested in meeting him while I was sorting my problems out. WHAT ! That desperate ? And shows his true colours ?

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1530881 - 26 Jun, 2022 - 04:38PM

Getting in touch with my inner self. Sounds corny but I’ve found out a lot more about me and got closer spiritually to myself and others. So more of a spiritual thing for me

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Stephen wolverhampton - 26 Jun, 2022 - 03:00PM

I have to say that it is a fantastic feeling when you meet up and make your partner excited and you know that you are both going to enjoy the evening. It doesn't happen every time but it is really nice when it does. I think that it is my job to entertain and excite my partner

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Stephen wolverhampton - 26 Jun, 2022 - 02:57PM

Hi there everyone

1529332 - 26 Jun, 2022 - 01:54PM

Reading through it seems just like life in general everyone has different opinions and needs, in different situations and stages in life.
Firstly it's us all appreciating and respecting that.
In my experience, there is a lot of pressure around sex. It seems most of the issues does stem around not being satisfied, either by meaningless sex or none at all. This leads to moans and groans about anything and everything where there is a chink in the relationship, and we all have them however big or small.

Having an affair can me a short term escape from time to time. It should be with someone who can understand your both in a similar situation. Or maybe you just want sex, that it is easy as you could go anywhere for that.

What I have learned from an affair is to make sure my husband is being looked after on a regular basis so he doesn't wonder. We now talk openly about each others needs. So I use my affairs as therapy..... each to there own

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1493631 - 26 Jun, 2022 - 01:13PM

An affair through IE and meeting ladies on that journey taught me that so many people, men and women are trapped in relationships that just don’t work. Don’t work in so many way - a lack of respect, courtesy within the relationship and of course sex.

Without going down the sex route too much, I have been amazed how many ladies who are lacking in that regard at home but have so much to give a lover.

A time honoured cliche, but I never cease to be amazed at how many ladies have so much to give but don’t get that respect at home

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