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1323236 - 23 Jun, 2020 - 03:32PM

Define cheating? Having a sex with some one without other person knowing about it is not cheating or unfaithful. I do not tell my wife about every single person I meet every day at work and what we do to help each other. And all non sexual fun and laughter we can have in the process.
We give far too much attention to what is as natural as breathing is.

Making babies with out her knowing that would be cheating or worst, get into relationship and then confine person to your own limitations.

I think you did not think this question through.

Janice630 - 22 Jun, 2020 - 12:17AM

I never cheated because my partner wanted me to experience sex with another guy. As it turned out it was the best sex I'd ever had. The guy we chose together was so big and very experienced in turning me on. We both loved it so much we met a few times behind my partners back. Fantastic sex and I wish I could find this guy again.

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evalitor - 17 Jun, 2020 - 02:06PM

Not for revenge but she did have an affair 5 years ago, then asked for an open marriage so I have no problems with meeting somebody and still keep my home life intact.

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WaitingtobeFound - 15 Jun, 2020 - 04:59AM

Didn't do it for revenge but my oh wanted to swing when I didn't. He changed his mind having tried to persuade me for months. I carried on, not swinging but looking for something outside of the marital relationship.

When I met my present oh I was a widow and in retrospect the marriage was a mistake as I had hoped to replicate what I had in the previous marriage. However having a lovely outside interest makes the marriage better as in more bearable.

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ExoticOrchid - 14 Jun, 2020 - 06:11PM

Nope … only joined after divorce as I didn't want another husband.

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1328828 - 13 Jun, 2020 - 12:28PM

Hardly fair to your IE if you’re just using them as a revenge shag. I wish my husband would have an affair for both our sakes!

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BucksMan72 - 12 Jun, 2020 - 10:10PM

No. Just want to meet a hot temptress for excitement and sexy time!! 😜

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Sportster1200L - 12 Jun, 2020 - 07:07PM

In hindsight, I think I should never have married. I should've stuck to having several boyfriends and a housekeeper...

I'm on my second marriage, clearly I didn't think this soon enough 🙈

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1390093 - 12 Jun, 2020 - 08:55PM

Wow ! Omg ....no way !

If you have any sort of revenge feelings towards your partner it’s time to get divorce in my opinion 🥰

I just don’t believe humans are born or meant to be monogamous! In love / partnership life goals maybe ... but never sexually lol

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1383025 - 12 Jun, 2020 - 08:34PM

Nope. I’m just bored of being friends and want the fun back again

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