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BestThingsInLifeAreFree - 27 Jun, 2020 - 03:15PM

I "THINK" that it boils down to what people "want" and what they "need". People may want "Tall, Dark and Handsome" but boring, arrogant, selfish and a miriad of other unpleasant characteristics comes in the form of beauty and the beast. I think many of us here chose "want" over "need".

1386174 - 27 Jun, 2020 - 02:57PM

Agree with @BrownEyedGirl01

Today's chat up line for me was the equivalent of "I fancy an affair, how about it" - doesn't suggest a great level of personality sadly so I will stick to my criteria....
And to the considerate, thoughtful and intelligent men who make an effort I always say thank you..... politeness costs nothing....

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gemini2310 - 27 Jun, 2020 - 02:01PM

Ladies when a guy sends you his PW and you do not want to carry on chatting just tell them this in my humble opinion is good manners we are all attracted by different types so many guys on here telling me this is happening

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tea_coffee_me_ - 27 Jun, 2020 - 01:55PM

"Thevicar72"
One needs to pray more for guidance to the right ladies ;-)

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1371036 - 27 Jun, 2020 - 01:49PM

So disheartened when so called lady's ask to swap picture passwords and never send theirs after viewing your profile pictures.How discourteous and vain you must be, there's more to people than just looks.

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1367807 - 27 Jun, 2020 - 01:23PM

Great question, but there must be a fair few men feeling a bit self conscious right now that they might be your "looks aren't everything" man 😂

Personally my expectations have never changed. I've always looked for the whole package of looks and personality and thankfully that's worked out well for me.

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1343636 - 27 Jun, 2020 - 12:41PM

Phew! Thought the initial statement was a bit harsh and went back to see who I've been talking to since April. Massively reassured by the resulting comments here!

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tea_coffee_me_ - 27 Jun, 2020 - 12:03PM

" Chezley -
Are we seeing a change now? In that when it was not possible to meet everyone was gagging for it. Now that the possibility of meeting draws nearer, suddenly everyone is choosy and has developed higher expectations? Somewhat inconvenient. Or are we back to the fickle humdrum of the former era?"
- I would suggest that those who are here NOT to have an affair in person will be found out now that people are saying... we can meet, where and when ....

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1352755 - 27 Jun, 2020 - 11:39AM

For me,you have to look at their photo and think...”nice”
It’s the meeting up that seals the dealt
Physical and mental stimulation is a must
It’s not all about sex is it?
I want a lover who can chat and make me laugh too ❤️

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1117169 - 27 Jun, 2020 - 10:59AM

Everyone has personal basic preferences but the more picky your criteria, the less chance of finding someone so its good to have an open mind. No doubt there are genuinely tall dark and handsome guys on here ( And what a cliche that is too) but they are probably rare may live nowhere near you and have very high standards themselves. Such guys are probably fully occupied playing the field off this site anyway.

There are some ladies ( And no doubt guys too) on here whose wish list is so far in the realms of pure unrealistic fantasy that that is where their search will probably remain.

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