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PorshaBlue - 11 Jul, 2020 - 01:42PM

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1361627 - 11 Jul, 2020 - 01:40PM

EmilyW - 11 Jul, 2020 - 12:53PM

Sorry, to have intervened but I failed to mention that I have also been the victim of one too many time wasters.
Good luck girls and don’t take them at face value!
X

1361627 - 11 Jul, 2020 - 01:36PM

EmilyW - 11 Jul, 2020 - 12:53PM

Thanks for your kind and supportive words.
Helps to know that the majority of men behave that way looking for their own ego boost to their low self esteem, by receiving validation from many regardless of whether they even find them attractive.
Your message has inspired me to adopt a rather treat them mean to keep them keen mindset as I was starting to think there was a problem with me by keep attracting such time wasters who aren’t even capable of a decent affair.
Sorry to the decent genuine guys, yet to find one on here though! X

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Charlie.130 - 11 Jul, 2020 - 12:28PM

Sorry you were played hun.

In my experience most men are like this though, they like to string you along and tell you what they think you want to hear. Why wouldn’t they, we’re all here essentially cheating on our partners, it’s unreasonable to expect an IE to be faithful and honest with you. Learn from this and don’t be surprised when it happens again. Stay cautious, enjoy the attention but don’t fall for it. If you find one whose company you enjoy and treats you well when you’re with them just accept that.

Sorry to be tarring all you men with the same brush but I await to be proved wrong!

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Charlie.130 - 11 Jul, 2020 - 12:28PM

I am so pleased for you to have been so lucky on IE, but like everyone says hold back some emotion and enjoy it whilst it lasts as that isn’t guaranteed.
I had an amazingly strong connection with a guy I met on here just a few months back. Chemistry was amazing and it worried me he could mess up his home life with the mutual attraction being so strong, and that’s what I genuinely felt every time we met.
Turns out he was playing a game and stringing many women along and I cannot believe I fell for it, he was a very good actor, worked in the film industry so I suppose he was a natural!! I can honestly say that it did hit hard as I didn’t imagine that of him he seemed so genuinely real. But as the saying goes, if it seems to good to be true it usually is!! Just be warned and keep an open mind. And enjoy!! X

1346297 - 11 Jul, 2020 - 09:55AM

I met my first IE a few years ago, I was heartbroken when we split up and the hard part at the time was having no one to discuss it with . It’s good we’ve got this Lockdown Love Chat so we can at least talk about I.E without getting judged xx

1387155 - 11 Jul, 2020 - 09:42AM

Anewstartneeded

Any man she wanted....?

Probably not. Just your opinion when it could be quite the opposite. If guys think like that or use the saying she's outta my league...its probably not the case just opinions that can sometimes be the opposite and she not get much attention cause guys think like that. Just saying that's all. Hope your getting on ok with the site.

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Gormlessoaf - 11 Jul, 2020 - 08:10AM

Seems like the women are saying, I'd like to believe it's like the real thing. The men are keeping a stiff upper lip throughout?

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Esprit1974 - 11 Jul, 2020 - 12:59AM

Remember the good times. But don’t get too involved

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1392431 - 10 Jul, 2020 - 11:51PM

My first IE and I had amazing chemistry and what looked like huge potential to build upon but a few months into the affair he decided to get back together with his wife! At the time it was really tough to hear but you just have to pick yourself up and move on!

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