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1591293 - 03 Apr, 2023 - 11:47AM

I was in the services and so what goes on on tour stays on tour as they say. I can count on one hand how many of my fellow sailors kept their good boys in their pants, and that hand had all of the fingers blown off by a grenade.

Personally, it is not that I want to cheat on my partner, it is more primal than that. I see a woman and I basically just want to have sex with her. That woman may be have lots of other qualities about her that I have yet to know but primarily she attracted me because she looked good and I desperately wanted to fuck her.

Enigma.. - 03 Apr, 2023 - 07:27AM

@Cheesypuff

Famous last words…. Lol.

I said that about one of my exs. We split up 2018 because I was suspected he was having an affair. Last year I found out that within 24 hours of the split he had got himself onto several dating sites.

What’s more I also found out that he had cheated on me twice. We didn’t live together and at the time I was working full time. He had an affair with a woman from his local fish and chip shop, which frequented at lunchtime, and the other was a receptionist in a local garage.

It was one of his neighbours who sent to a txt message to tell me what was going on. Apparently he had “tried it on” with several other women and is, now, the most unpopular person in the village.

What’s laughable, is the fact, he was declaring he still loved me and wanted me back,

No chance 🤷🏼‍♀️😂😉😏👋🏻

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Delicious Chaos - 01 Apr, 2023 - 10:45PM

Cheeesy🤣 still a comedian

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Glizzle - 01 Apr, 2023 - 09:17PM

I totally agree, at the end of the day we're all just animals and have needs that not every other animal can fulfill xx

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1590856 - 01 Apr, 2023 - 08:18PM

5 years ago I would’ve said I’d never do this, completely against my moral compass and goes against everything I was raised to believe. But somehow I found myself and my instincts searching for what I was missing and I haven’t looked back since. 2 very long successful affairs over 3 years and it’s given me a new sense of life, renewed energy and confidence and I feel so much better. Unfortunately all good things come to an end and after 16 months my last affair ended, 2 month gap and I’m desiring another long term partner. Not all people cheat but I now believe we aren’t naturally designed to be with someone for life. Everything runs its course. Unfortunately many of us can’t leave our marriages because of a multitude of reasons. This place is our outlet, our escapism

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Cheesypuff - 01 Apr, 2023 - 08:12PM

My wife has never cheated on me and never would do.

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ExoticOrchid - 01 Apr, 2023 - 07:02PM

When I was married (20+ years) it never occurred to me to "cheat" even though my (then) husband was a serial cheater. Don't ask me why ... I couldn't tell you ... I just accepted it and thought it was my fault in some way that he was cheating ... it did hurt though 💔.

1447655 - 01 Apr, 2023 - 05:47PM

I just think the 'model' of meeting one person, having kids together and living in domestic 'bliss' for the next 60 years is just not realistic for a lot of people. Home and hearth and family are ideal for children to be raised in and we are habituated to live in family units - like other animals. But that 'thing' we probably all crave isn't designed to last 20+ years. And people change - that's only natural, and good.

Some people will be content with what they have - pretty much a sexless union with little connection emotionally or psychologically. Maybe they don't need more (and that fascinates and baffles me). I think they are the lucky ones.

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ENM-Enabled - 01 Apr, 2023 - 05:38PM

Well I was the other side. Found my partner was cheating. Thought about it for a long time. Stuff it thought I, I'll follow suit. I realised that half my ... anger? unhappiness? outrage? was that I had not taken advantage of the opportunities that came my way before. Took a while to get comfortable. Bonus of course is I don't have to worry about getting caught.

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Saneguy - 01 Apr, 2023 - 05:17PM

I've been away from this game for so long I find myself here, looking to see what it's all about, feel I'm on a treadmill trapped in a dead relationship, is there life after 50

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