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1399985 - 27 Aug, 2020 - 08:36PM

@HotLips935 of course you are entitled to an opinion. Funny thing though... So am I.
So if my opinion is that I disagree with your opinion, then that's my opinion, which I am entitled to hold, and entitled to express.

If your opinion is that having multiple partners on IE is in some way bad or wrong, while I am very happily having multiple partners on IE then obviously I'm going to disagree with you.

You do your thing, have one partner or ten or none, whatever makes you happy, and I won't judge you. But when the opinion you express implies that people like me don't belong on IE then you can't reasonably expect that people like me won't disagree with that.

@Invisalign- you didn't state it explicitly, but the tone was pejorative 😉

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1400319 - 27 Aug, 2020 - 08:08PM

@Devon Pixie Where in my statement do i say being slutty is a bad thing? maybe try to be a bit more open minded.x

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Hot Lips935 - 27 Aug, 2020 - 08:05PM

@Devon Pixie
I'm entitled to an opinion on here!!!!

1399985 - 27 Aug, 2020 - 07:39PM

@Hotlips935- bit judgemental there, people are all here for their own reasons, just because someone is looking for something different to you doesn't mean you are right and they are wrong. It certainly doesn't mean they are "abusing" the site! I would strongly suggest that if cheating isn't your thing it's probably you that is on the wrong site. Seeing as this site is specifically for cheating and all.

I like multiples. Sometimes multiples at the same time *shock horror* and I love IE It's very well suited to me.

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gemini2310 - 27 Aug, 2020 - 07:36PM

Sportster1200L

Totally agree with you anyone can say they want exclusive how would we know who they are seeing we have no hold on anyone on here I only want do exclusive that's my choice and if pple want different it's up to them theres no wrong or right on here after all most of us or married or already in a relationship I do agree with a hidden profile that sends alarm bells off with me but there again it's up to everyone one what they do or don't do

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Hot Lips935 - 27 Aug, 2020 - 07:10PM

I agree with invisalign. Multiple partners are fine if you are single. It's bad enough we are on here cheating with our home partners without having multiples on here. Some abuse this site. If it's multiple partners you want then I'm sure there are other sites more suited to you.

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1117169 - 27 Aug, 2020 - 07:04PM

@Devon Pixie

There is no need to blame the girl only if she is admits what she is doing and her partner is happy on that basis.

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1117169 - 27 Aug, 2020 - 07:00PM

If you are not looking for multiple hook ups ( And that's fine as long as you make it clear that you are) and you set out your stall on the basis of exclusivity, I think its entirely reasonable, and indeed expected, to chat to a shortlist of several people on here and maybe off here too until you find the one person that you wish to become your regular IE partner.

You should then ( Both) come come off here / suspend your profile immedistely while you are in the relationship and not engage with anyone else. I have even suspended my profile while waiting for a first meeting as a gesture of goodwill. That's what genuine people should do I think.

There is no harm in reading and contributing to the forum of course as long as you agree that with to your IE partner

I think hiding a profile pretending exclusivity while chatting on here surreptitiously to try to find a " Better deal" is despicable.

The GEM should never have an opportunity to rear its ugly head.

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1399985 - 27 Aug, 2020 - 06:46PM

@Invisalign- the risk from a girl still exploring her slutty side?! It's 2020, slut shaming is so passé! What risk? If you mean risk of infections, then there are really easy steps a man can take to protect himself against those, no need to blame the girl if you chose to risk your own health.

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1400319 - 27 Aug, 2020 - 05:55PM

I was accused of spending time on this site chatting to other women when really I was just on this forum answering questions like this :D

Honestly if a lover was a little jealous I would be flattered and make sure to reassure her in the best way possible... as long as nothing doesn't manifest into possessive/ controlling behaviour then it's fine.

If I on the other hand learnt a lover was chatting to multiple men either through discussion or from the tell tale signs in her behaviour, then I end it. I don't need the headache or the risk from a girl still exploring her slutty side.

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