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1510079 - 03 Apr, 2022 - 01:11PM

I think it helps a lot and helps avoid picking fights at home too

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ExoticOrchid - 03 Apr, 2022 - 01:09PM

Doricles - 03 Apr, 2022 - 11:02AM

Good point.
However, if anyone here doesn't already know/realise all this, they need a good talking to with themselves as well as a good, hard mental slap!!!

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1488125 - 03 Apr, 2022 - 12:53PM

@boredhousewife.

The cucumber lady had different goals to myself. If you are not clear with each other from the offset, then it goes pear shaped.

There has to be absolute agreement to how the relationship should work.

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1488125 - 03 Apr, 2022 - 12:50PM

@boredhousewife.

I would reckon that we all have had weird shit. What I shared about that lovely person - she was not to blame.

We should bear in mind that a lot is at stake.

And no my experiences pale in comparison to many others.

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1494077 - 03 Apr, 2022 - 12:34PM

@CIL1973
Seems like you have had rather eventful liaisons - from the cucumber lady to this one that you now describe! 😉

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1488125 - 03 Apr, 2022 - 11:17AM

@Doricles, seen this first hand when a woman I met here, met a previous affair’s very angry spouse - well not in person, but texts, letters in the post, trying to make her life a misery.

She broke it off with me. We had chatted for a while, met once and then this all blew up. I really liked this woman.

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1488125 - 03 Apr, 2022 - 11:10AM

@Doricles

Very good point.

Doricles - 03 Apr, 2022 - 11:02AM

⚠️Spoiler Alert⚠️ “Actions have consequences”! All IE members, be they old, young; married:l, single; male or female, need to think long and hard before crossing the line and having an illicit encounter as all such singular encounters have the potential to develop into an ongoing relationship and become a full blown affair. You need to be prepared to lose everything: or at least 50% (minimum) of everything! There’s also the potential to lose family and friends, respect, social standing and possibly your job, particularly if you’ve been scheduling your IEs on the firm’s time! From a man’s perspective, it’s very easy to fall in love with your paramour: been there, done that! I’m not being “bah humbug” or a harbinger of doom. Just offering a reality check to anyone who’s on here window shopping and considering their next step? We are all masters/mistresses (no pun intended) of our own destinies. If you get caught out, on your own head be it 🙁

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1488125 - 03 Apr, 2022 - 09:56AM

I want this so much! I really want to have an affair and feel like I am walking on air, constantly thinking about my lover, have secret telephone calls and texts.

I would love to be doing regular fun things, being romantic. Kissing passionately somewhere secluded.

Experience the 1000 volts coursing through our bodies when we touch each other. Feel appreciated by your lover.

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Spanish Jack - 15 Jan, 2022 - 09:46PM

Was it a full blown affair or just meetings?