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HiddenFire - 17 Jun, 2025 - 10:38PM

Bit random but has anyone noticed how many Aries (I'm looking at women) are on here? I'm Aries too

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Letsmeetup - 17 Jun, 2025 - 12:57PM

Fingers crossed, I've joined to go on that journey.

Enjoylife40 - 17 Jun, 2025 - 12:47PM

I’m a different person in a good way since having been on here and having met someone last year although it was only for 6 months …so here I am back again to try and find that one person ….but agreed it has made me more of a relaxed playful person

1775591 - 13 Jun, 2025 - 12:01PM

I had an affair a few years ago and I genuinely believe it saved my marriage and my family. The enforced celibacy was driving a wedge between us and the release of pressure that the affair provided was the difference that got the marriage out of a downward spiral.

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1791353 - 11 Jun, 2025 - 08:19AM

@CoolBadLion

Are we?

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1756595 - 11 Jun, 2025 - 08:01AM

So true.. even my marriage is better!!

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CoolBadLion - 11 Jun, 2025 - 12:06AM

We are all on the same boat

marklondonengland - 10 Jun, 2025 - 06:46PM

@Paula99 hit the nail on the head. I don't know who is writing these forum questions, but it is incredibly simplistic to say "I had an affair, now I feel playful..." What if you are still in debt and poor health? Is a one-night fling in a PremierInn really going to transform your life?

A lot of people justify an affair by saying 'everything is secure at home, but I just need some passion' ... it can be a reason, but this is a reductionist approach that ignores every aspect of lifestyle and psychology and just assumes that men getting sex = happy men.

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Paula99 - 10 Jun, 2025 - 04:19PM

It never ceases to amaze me …guys get to 50 and have not had an affair before and they decide on a whim that this is what they need … it can’t be any other reason of course …no evaluation of lifestyle…work patterns…empty nest..heath..etc etc ..it’s got to be another woman 👩….nothing else will work and nothing has been tried in the meantime …🧐

Let’s be realistic guys ….🫤

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YourSecretLover - 10 Jun, 2025 - 01:58PM

Yep, but without being too obvious to anyone else. Discreet is the word but for me it releases any tensions and stress or those few hours of playing. Making love making fun.

David x

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