Let one's hair down
Full disclosure: I am genuinely a much happier person to be around since having an affair. I've laughed harder, and been more playful then I have in the last decade. Thanks IE for helping me let my hair down.
Can anyone relate?
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Freya2You - 18 Jun, 2025 - 05:11PM
I would agree, an affair saved my marriage for sure…. Celibacy is not for everyone…
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LadyDe - 17 Jun, 2025 - 11:45PM
Hidden fires
Wow just thinking same thing, I’m Taurus and all the guys too … mmm 🤔 not a coincidence surely? Are they playing with us 🤔
HiddenFire - 17 Jun, 2025 - 10:38PM
Bit random but has anyone noticed how many Aries (I'm looking at women) are on here? I'm Aries too
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Enjoylife40 - 17 Jun, 2025 - 12:47PM
I’m a different person in a good way since having been on here and having met someone last year although it was only for 6 months …so here I am back again to try and find that one person ….but agreed it has made me more of a relaxed playful person
1775591 - 13 Jun, 2025 - 12:01PM
I had an affair a few years ago and I genuinely believe it saved my marriage and my family. The enforced celibacy was driving a wedge between us and the release of pressure that the affair provided was the difference that got the marriage out of a downward spiral.
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1791353 - 11 Jun, 2025 - 08:19AM
@CoolBadLion
Are we?
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1756595 - 11 Jun, 2025 - 08:01AM
So true.. even my marriage is better!!
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marklondonengland - 10 Jun, 2025 - 06:46PM
@Paula99 hit the nail on the head. I don't know who is writing these forum questions, but it is incredibly simplistic to say "I had an affair, now I feel playful..." What if you are still in debt and poor health? Is a one-night fling in a PremierInn really going to transform your life?
A lot of people justify an affair by saying 'everything is secure at home, but I just need some passion' ... it can be a reason, but this is a reductionist approach that ignores every aspect of lifestyle and psychology and just assumes that men getting sex = happy men.
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