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IE has made me a lot more body positive

The lack of intimacy and affection at home made me begin to believe that I was no longer attractive - how very wrong I was. It has been life changing reclaiming my sexual sovereignty and the power and energy that comes with it. Can anyone else relate?

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musexkanter - 16 Nov, 2020 - 10:15PM

Absolutely true. Even in my case that everything is going on oniline as a matter of my circumstances. To be honest, it has also improved my behavior with my wife - who's stopped loving me long ago.

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Emi_90x - 15 Nov, 2020 - 10:21PM

Everyone is attractive in their own way. Confidence is an incredibly attractive quality to have.

Being on here is a massive confidence boost though.

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ClassyLady77 - 15 Nov, 2020 - 09:04PM

Searching for a affair has had the opposite affect... Men want trophy women or one that’s easy... Both definitely not me... 🤷🏼‍♀️

I know I will find someone who’ll make me feel amazing again.. my last affair did so I know someone else will come along...

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Geek0808 - 15 Nov, 2020 - 02:29PM

Life is too short not to feel good.

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Skatie70 - 15 Nov, 2020 - 01:47PM

That is so lovely to hear, as I also didn't realise how my marriage had desexualised me in all ways. Once I left, I was so lucky to find a man who made me feel girlie, sexy, sensual and gave me the confidence to explore what I needed, but didn't realise. Although this lovely man isn't my partner anymore, we are still friends.
Keep reclaiming your sexual sovereignty, power and energy....!!!

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1401866 - 15 Nov, 2020 - 09:43AM

@gemini2310

I can totally resonate with you say!

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1389672 - 15 Nov, 2020 - 09:40AM

Since joining this site I made the decision to leave my wife, who for almost all of my marriage, withheld intimacy. This made me feel unloved, alone and frustrated.

I have come to the conclusion that withholding love, intimacy and closeness, causes a man / woman to search for it elsewhere. We all need love, and to withhold it, while demanding total loyalty, is equally as bad as having an affair. So I left and have not looked back since.

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stan666 - 04 Nov, 2020 - 05:32PM

It takes longer to build confidence than to have it eroded.
Hard to believe in yourself when a partner doesn't

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WaveyDavey1956 - 04 Nov, 2020 - 04:07PM

I know what that is like. I'm really looking for a nice lady in a similar position to have regular meets with, although a one night stand would appeal as well.


1415667 - 27 Oct, 2020 - 02:34PM

Same situation. Still wanted to have a physical and intimate relationship but having been turned down I thought that was it. Out to the knackers yard.
Then met a wonderful lady on IE and we had the same effect on each other.
Feel so much more confident and self assured and my outlook on life is much more positive now.

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