How to suppress the excitement?
I've met someone and we're a great match. We've been sneaking off to see each other and getting a buzz from the adrenaline. My question is, how do you suppress the excitement when you're at home? I get butterflies just from a text message and I'm walking around like a grinning idiot half the time. How do you tone down the glow up?
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MissTiaxx - 05 Jun, 2022 - 10:19PM
Why do some people ( I won’t say women ) belittle the few who stand up, why at 60 do I see you as sad ,
FluffyClouds - 22 Jan, 2022 - 03:39PM
If you're so controlled at home that you aren't allowed to do anything on your own, then A) that's not a life B) you'll never have a decent affair
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1117169 - 22 Jan, 2022 - 10:33AM
@EmnEm123
Agree. Not having sufficient mutual free time means its a non starter.
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EmnEm123 - 16 Dec, 2021 - 10:37PM
@Paula99
If you can't get out of your regular times and days then get out of here.
I've never heard of anything so ridiculous, (I've heard a lot ridiculous from you).
I can understand attached people thinking that they want this but when push comes to shove they change their minds.
Affairs take up time, even just casual fun, I laugh at the people who claim this can be done on a lunch break.
Yuck, how unsatisfying!
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Paula99 - 16 Dec, 2021 - 02:12AM
Ensure you are not doing anything out of your regular times and days...think carefully about the logistics....just behave in the normal way it makes it more realistic...the moment you start to waver that's the dangerous part....go to the gym ...change your mindset...it does work..🙂
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1489085 - 15 Dec, 2021 - 11:22PM
Go to the gym and do 50 burpees. Job done.
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1117169 - 06 Dec, 2021 - 07:23PM
Wear a hair shirt or chew silver paper.
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Andyoxf - 02 Dec, 2021 - 05:18AM
Explain how much fun you had at whatever you were supposed to be doing when you saw your lover. I generally find being happier makes home life better as well, you might even find your spouse becomes more interested in you if you are happy, which proved useful in the last lockdown.
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1418715 - 01 Dec, 2021 - 11:36AM
If you get the logistics right then your behaviour shouldn't need to change.. I try to match meetings with work trips or days that are not likely to be questioned... I have 'interests' that I know will immediately be ignored if I open a conversation about them (think VAR 🤣😂)
It's about plausible deniability.... But I am pretty cheerful anyway.... 👍
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