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ExoticOrchid - 26 Mar, 2024 - 09:58AM

I'm sure MEM's lady is very flattered by his description of her ... perhaps the lady in question would like to enlighten us? 🤔

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1658799 - 26 Mar, 2024 - 09:46AM

Perhaps some do, but as man in my early 40s, I prefer the elder female as she knows what she wants and it makes it easier and less of a hassle if you both in same page and seeking the same.

FluffyClouds - 25 Mar, 2024 - 06:23PM

Mister E Mann -

Quite a number of men on here are looking for a fantasy Goddess...shame they're not fantasy Gods

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Polycarbonate - 25 Mar, 2024 - 05:05PM

Of course age and experience endow you with the ability to choose precisely the right thing for you. As long as that choice is available.

If not then it's likely you don't apply the same criteria and make do with what is available.

Being fussy indicates you neither know what is good or whether you need it.

1614937 - 25 Mar, 2024 - 04:44PM

Pink Elga

Yes, of course! We're both happy with that and love what we have. I've always said that you shouldn't judge a book by its cover and she's living proof. If I'd insisted on only meeting a goddess, (or she'd only be prepared to meet a rich and successful businessman) we'd never have got together and we'd both still be looking.
As it happens, we've both found what we needed. I hope that's some encouragement for others on here.

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Pink Eiga - 25 Mar, 2024 - 02:33PM

Mister.E.Mann - 25 Mar, 2024 - 09:43AM

Have you told her that she’s not your ‘dream girl’? 😊

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Jamie#83 - 25 Mar, 2024 - 02:04PM

It depends on circumstances and availability of interested or engaged parties. Where I live there are many active women. Then there is no room to be fussy

Prof Sarah Beauchamp - 25 Mar, 2024 - 10:06AM

I have always been fussy. Never settle for second best, there is too much at stake.
PSB

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1614937 - 25 Mar, 2024 - 09:43AM

Enigma.. - 25 Mar, 2024 - 08:00AM

I guess I'm not most men (but you probably knew that!)... I'm definitely over 55 and I was definitely not looking for a (much) younger woman! I'm currently very happy with one that's a year older than me. She isn't exactly my "dream girl" but that's not important. What we have is wonderful.

We're never going to be happy if we're fussy as we'll never find the "perfect" match. All the "beautiful people", alpha males, goddesses, rich and generous... have been taken. Far more important is the undefinable "connection" we have for one another and you're unlikely to find that if you reject someone, based on their musical preferences or the brand of their shoes!

boav91 - 25 Mar, 2024 - 09:16AM

I think for me it depends what you mean

For me what I wanted was a discreet illicit liaison with one person. Leading up to finding that person i became both more fussy and less at the same time

As I have gotten older I am less interested in playing games with people. Too much hard work in that. You connect or you dont and I hate all the BS. We are lying to our regular partners so why lie here unless you are playing games. Cant be doing with that. Crap communication also really annoys me as I got older

I did find though that the ratio of messages sent to replies was around 20 messages sent to 1 reply initially and then you dont really get to be choosy. that seems to be the way of it for men.

Fortunately I do think I found my IE where it is not a compromise and on all fronts it works. Now that does not always happen. So I get to be more fussy and selective because I found someone that worked. Until then I was thinking I need to be less fussy.

I am not sure I answered the question after all tha

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