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1653827 - 23 Mar, 2024 - 09:14AM

Anecdote of the year. Thx

Sinfully_Seductive - 29 Jan, 2024 - 01:30AM

More cautious rather than fussy, but I do know what I want and what I dont

Happy Henry - 27 Jan, 2024 - 10:46AM

I honestly think I've become less prejudicial, more forgiving of other peoples foibles and idiosyncrasies, and I definitely work little harder to see beneath the first impression to find those things that we (whoever the 'we' might be) might have in common.Although this is tempered with a shorter tolerance for BS, and a clearer view of what makes me happy ..

Definitely, as said below I think, less cautious too ..

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Paula99 - 27 Jan, 2024 - 09:05AM

We are all in a different ‘ mindset ‘ when we first decide to have an affair and basically this is all a learning curve how prospective philanderers/system works.
For the majority of us who have recently been involved in a STA/LTA then we have been around the block as to speak..we tend to be more decisive and we know what we want and how to achieve it..Does that make us ‘fussy’…or more cautious ?..I think it’s more of a sixth sense and my hubby says that I can see around corners (???) ..it’s worrying what goes through his mind 😂

We can’t be anyone else than ourselves and let’s not try to be…😁

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Company4Fun - 26 Jan, 2024 - 11:19PM

Perhaps more cautious with age. Some very nice people here. Some misguided or misplaced. As Shakespeare said "To thine own self be true." Personally I think the key is to read the ads carefully and to respect and abide by their aims.

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Jed1970 - 26 Jan, 2024 - 10:34PM

Since I’ve hit 50 I’ve found the interaction is less. I am very fit and my genuine photos get questioned to the point I’ve taken a few down.

Any assistance for ladies on here would be appreciated starting to wonder if my introduction is all wrong?

Purple dreamer - 26 Jan, 2024 - 11:11AM

Think we become just a bit more decisive the older we get

1584380 - 25 Jan, 2024 - 10:07PM

I don't think its fussier I think we know what we want. However I have become more open minded and if I like it then I will absolutely go for it. I like the fact that I am not afraid to say what I mean, I would have no problem asking a lady out whereas when I was younger I was definately shy.

1584380 - 25 Jan, 2024 - 10:05PM

I don't think its fussier I think we know what we want. However I have become more open minded and if I like it then I will absolutely go for it. I like the fact that I am not afraid to say what I mean, I would have no problem asking a lady out whereas when I was younger I was definately shy.

curiousjezza - 25 Jan, 2024 - 08:22PM

Not sure we get fussier but we certainly become more knowing and better at spotting the bullshit artists before it's too late

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