More attentive?
I get that feeling of freedom of doing something in secret and knowing that those around me couldn't believe I could do something like having an affair. The draw of that sensation of the knot in your stomach caused by the butterflies causing havoc and the knees wobbling is hard to resist.
I feel because of this I am a little more attentive to those around me... Can anyone relate?
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ClassyLady77 - 06 Nov, 2021 - 06:39AM
Totally agree. It’s nice to have some fun and do something for ME..
When I found my Affair partner I’m definitely more happier and attentive at home.. hubby likes it.. 🤫 😂
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1481947 - 05 Nov, 2021 - 11:37PM
Whilst others are dropping kids at school, I’m straightening my suspenders and adjusting my corset in preparation
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Guido1966 - 04 Nov, 2021 - 11:15PM
I do look around and wonder who is acting on their desires.....I imagine most people want a lover but dont act on their impulses.
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Paula99 - 04 Nov, 2021 - 05:57PM
I think initially when you first have an affair you have all those feelings...knots and 🦋 and it's a big secret...but as time goes on you experience guilt and insecurity...the difficult part is keeping the secret and not having anyone to talk/share your thoughts.🙃
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Ernieoto1234 - 04 Nov, 2021 - 04:03PM
I feel this adrenaline rush just thinking about having an affair!
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1413266 - 04 Nov, 2021 - 02:54PM
Yes i can relate. Had a few affairs and it makes you feel really alive and much more in tune with your surroundings. It is thrilling, but be careful not to show so much of that new animated you to the others in your life. It is supposed to be secret after all.....
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1459664 - 04 Nov, 2021 - 02:50PM
I agree. Though I'm not committed to anyone at present, it is a wonderful feeling, the anticipation, the butterflies if you like, the general boost to the sense of wellness when you know someone out there is waiting for you, wanting you and knows in turn that they are equally desired.
Sanosatr - 04 Nov, 2021 - 01:46PM
I have had no experiences on here so far, but the fact of looking for an affair does thrill and excite me. Adrenaline rush gives a boost to the ego, when someone does like you.
Imneverg - 04 Nov, 2021 - 11:05AM
It is exciting and I like the feel of it. I'm more attentive because I don't want to get caught out and have to give up what I have at home, or what I might find on here
1485847 - 04 Nov, 2021 - 11:05AM
Calculated danger always adds to the excitement and yes, when I'm happy and relaxed I am much more attentive to those around me.
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