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1497533 - 10 Mar, 2022 - 01:57PM

I love a bit of lube. Im not dry down there 😂 but a bit of something minty and tingly is great. And don't get me started on strawberry lube for foreplay. For both of us

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Doc Johnson - 10 Mar, 2022 - 11:28AM

I would 100 percent not be offended. Water based is my preference and please don't use too much as this can reduce sensation for both parties. Also there are plenty of fun lubes to play with so have fun experimenting.

I do have a thing for massage oil. Ooh la la!

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CAE255 - 10 Mar, 2022 - 11:25AM

I am a man at an age comparable to that at which women consider the use of lube. It has mostly advantages, and potential disadvantages. Male physiology changes with age as well. It takes longer to reach full erection, which leads to the obvious feelings of inadequacy mitigated by patience on the part of a lady and also by parallel female physiology such as the need for lubrication, which makes the aging process a commonly shared experience. And again, relieves a man's sense of inadequacy.
Secondly, if you're considering anal sex, it's almost always necessary for that anyway.
Thirdly, having it available and sharing that it's available with your partner takes the stress off you of having to get wet and being judged by how wet you get.
The disadvantage is that a lot of lubrication makes it more difficult to control premature ejaculation and reduces sensation in a similar way to a condom, but not as much.
So I would say if, knowing your body, you think it may be helpful, then have it ready and talk abou

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Mad World - 10 Mar, 2022 - 10:26AM

Oh fantastic, finally one where the blokes can pass some proper comments and seasoned expertise on.

KY Jelly - is that still in circulation?
Vaseline - an old favourite, tried and trusted, spreading thinly can result in generous coverage regardless
Aloe Vera - this is a new concept but one gathering pace in continental European counties in particular.
Melted Lard - only as a last resort. Note that this is normally found in towns/villages north of the Watford Gap but in these troubled times all commodities should be treated with utmost respect

Just my tuppence worth from the floor, I hope the person who wrote this is having a wonderful time with her partner and that she is only writing this as a last resort also.

Happy Lubing to all

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