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Would Using Lube Make You Feel Inadequate?

Do you take lube on your hotel meets? When women get to a certain age, they sometimes need a bit of help in the lubrication department due to hormones and the menopause. Have you used lube? Do you expect lube? Would you, as a man, be offended if lube was used?

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1444888 - 10 Mar, 2022 - 03:02PM

Why not use it? Both male and female can enjoy putting it each other. I know I'd enjoy that...

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ExoticOrchid - 10 Mar, 2022 - 02:53PM

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P99 - 02:20PM

To cover one's inadequacies, one has to insult/put down others to make one feel like a superior clever dick! πŸ˜‰πŸ€£

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1497533 - 10 Mar, 2022 - 02:45PM

Baby oil and condoms are a big no no. Oil will rot your condoms.

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MatureWorcsBBW - 10 Mar, 2022 - 02:30PM

Paula99
There are people who think that London is the epitome of sophistication and that all else is positively prehistoric.

That's not true either.

On the lube front, saliva is probably one of the best things to use and it costs nowt too.
Win win, I say.

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Paula99 - 10 Mar, 2022 - 02:20PM

What's the story about LardπŸ˜• and the significance of towns and cities north of the Watford gap?..
Not a big fan of Lube but if you need it then it's all good. It does reduce the sensation..like my mate ( male ) used to say ..its like throwing a stick up an alley..but there are plenty of other things you can do..its all about discovering your lovers likes and dislikes

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Polycarbonate - 10 Mar, 2022 - 02:13PM

The slip must not exceed the grip.
The keyword here is purchase.

My fwb uses baby oil with a tallyho, let's go, another one hits the spot.
For prostate massage, essential.
Strap on, unthinkable without.
In quieter moments the fleshlight gets water based lube.

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MatureWorcsBBW - 10 Mar, 2022 - 02:06PM

Oh yes please.

And not only when it's needed either.
A different minty flavour really gets the taste buds going.

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1497533 - 10 Mar, 2022 - 01:57PM

I love a bit of lube. Im not dry down there πŸ˜‚ but a bit of something minty and tingly is great. And don't get me started on strawberry lube for foreplay. For both of us

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Doc Johnson - 10 Mar, 2022 - 11:28AM

I would 100 percent not be offended. Water based is my preference and please don't use too much as this can reduce sensation for both parties. Also there are plenty of fun lubes to play with so have fun experimenting.

I do have a thing for massage oil. Ooh la la!

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CAE255 - 10 Mar, 2022 - 11:25AM

I am a man at an age comparable to that at which women consider the use of lube. It has mostly advantages, and potential disadvantages. Male physiology changes with age as well. It takes longer to reach full erection, which leads to the obvious feelings of inadequacy mitigated by patience on the part of a lady and also by parallel female physiology such as the need for lubrication, which makes the aging process a commonly shared experience. And again, relieves a man's sense of inadequacy.
Secondly, if you're considering anal sex, it's almost always necessary for that anyway.
Thirdly, having it available and sharing that it's available with your partner takes the stress off you of having to get wet and being judged by how wet you get.
The disadvantage is that a lot of lubrication makes it more difficult to control premature ejaculation and reduces sensation in a similar way to a condom, but not as much.
So I would say if, knowing your body, you think it may be helpful, then have it ready and talk abou

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