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1117169 - 05 May, 2022 - 05:31PM

@NWH

Further to Chezley's advice below, which is mostly sound, though overly dramatic when it comes to excuses for not meeting, if you get asked to call someone within a day of chatting on here, Google the number first. You will be glad you did.

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Chezley - 05 May, 2022 - 02:31PM

Nearwildheaven

We've most of us gone through this. Probably by the very same woman!
They don't meet, they don't want too. They are either suffering a personality disorder, mortally sick or bedridden by obesity. They cannot show themselves to the world.

When it happens, it happens fairly quickly. Direct Phone calls within a day, a date to meet within a week, another date, then sexy time. so don't you start pining for the one that got away. And do not dither when it happens, or you'll get left behind.

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1117169 - 05 May, 2022 - 12:37PM

@NWH

Don't be a fool. She's just a chatter boosting her ego or alleviating her boredom. she isn't going to meet you or anyone.

Stop now and move on

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DorsetLass89 - 05 May, 2022 - 10:44AM

NWH

I hear you! I’m not always great at taking my own advice either, especially when you feel it’s going so well.

Sometimes we just need to remind ourselves that when the right one comes along (and they do!) it will be worth it

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FluffyClouds - 05 May, 2022 - 10:30AM

With regards to the the main question, surely when you swap pics, you should both say if there's any attraction. I don't think you need to read between the lines, surely? After a few days of decent messaging you should just ask for a meet, if they beat around the bush and avoid it, just move on. They're just here for the chat.

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1382700 - 05 May, 2022 - 10:26AM

DorsetLass89

Problem is some of us can’t help focussing on one person. I know it’s not clever to be sensitive on this site but I can’t help it. I’ve chatted with someone everyday for a couple of weeks. We get on really well but she doesn’t feel she has the time (and maybe the inclination) to meet. I’m finding it difficult to hide my disappointment.

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FluffyClouds - 05 May, 2022 - 10:25AM

Michael -

If she won't give you a pw for a pic then just abandon ship. She's not going to get very far with any man with that attitude. Who's going to meet her without knowing what she looks like?

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Chezley - 04 May, 2022 - 10:03PM

Kiara

That's the usual procedure for about 99% of the internet.

ShyOne1980 - 04 May, 2022 - 09:50PM

How is everyone

Kiara014 - 04 May, 2022 - 09:05PM

Speaking for myself this is my filter I only answer to guys who send me their pw along with a nice message after looking @ their profile & if I liked what I saw.. Otherwise, I don't engage on conversation..

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