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Parttimebf - 08 Jul, 2023 - 09:44AM

Some people find better alternatives closer to home. But yeah.. be nice if they actually told you that right?

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Parttimebf - 08 Jul, 2023 - 09:44AM

For me being Chinese it's pretty easy. Women who can see past media perception of Asian men already decided I'm attractive enough to warrant an open friendly conversation. And it was clear the level of interest at first meeting... the problem was that these were from normal dating sites... I pretty much only tell them.my situation there and then... too late.

Hopefully I'll have some good experience here.

Culture Lover - 22 Jun, 2023 - 09:26AM

Only been on here a short time after leaving a couple of years back. What got me was the number of women who are short and want really tall men! Why? I'm 5'7" so don't see the problem with 5 foot one or 2 women.

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AdorableOne - 21 Jun, 2023 - 11:29PM

Don't overthink it is the short answer.

If a lady goes quiet it can be for a number of things, from running out of wine lol to being busted by her husband. Changing her mind about having an affair, to just being on the site to try and find her husband :p

It can be annoying when you've put a lot of effort in and end up with nothing but you only need to get lucky once! When you do, it just happens naturally.

Don't take things to heart, spin the wheel and try again, Good Luck!

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Jay122 - 21 Jun, 2023 - 08:50PM

I am pretty new on here and this has been tricky for me also. I have been engaged in message exchanges thinking that there are the beginnings of a connection with a lady to then suddenly go quiet without any further contact. I guess it could be that they have met someone else or personal circumstances have changed, but hope it’s not something I said!?! (I did check back over my messages due to paranoia) .

EmnEm123 - 20 Jun, 2023 - 02:55PM

WillKr

Crikey!

String a proper sentence together, that’s grim!

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1582640 - 09 Jun, 2023 - 04:52PM

I’ve a pretty wife, had a previous pretty wife, had quite a few very attractive girlfriends, and in the rw attract more women than I deserve but cannot act on this as it’s all friends circles.

But on here the sense of entitlement is off the chart, so many average women execrations of top looking guys. I just read one described as cuddly saying ‘oh and you’ve got to be ripped’.

I know guys who play along for some bed fun but they aren’t truly attracted to these women

1408586 - 06 Jun, 2023 - 12:38PM

WillKr

If I was looking for love of my life of course I’d compromise on bald (or stages of)

For a lover. Nope!!

However lots of women love the shaved head look so I’m sure you’ll match eventually. I think a lot of IE is knowing what we offer and therefore what we can reasonably expect in a March?

stellasteve - 05 Jun, 2023 - 02:45PM

When she meets me, gets under the table and does a good job. She is a winner in my book.

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FluffyClouds - 05 Jun, 2023 - 02:44PM

Skatie -

If I was sitting in a bar and a man walked in. Firstly, I would be able to see his entire body, his walk, his clothing style, his body language, his height, his build, his mannerisms, what his companions were like. You don't get that from a pic.

Face to face conversation, I'd hear his voice. Closer proximity I can see his teeth, smell his breath and body odour. If we connect, then we chat more. People are different in conversation face to face, and I've found, better than messaging.

There is a difference between online dating and face to face. Mostly, the crucial parts.

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