Should I feel guilty?
"Help IE! I'm worried the kid's school might be closed this week because of this news about concrete collapsing and having to homeschool again. Schools in Essex are affected but I don't know for sure yet. I know this might sound terrible, but in the past few weeks I have been planning to meet a lover I met online as soon as I dropped the kids off.
It's not the first time I have had an affair, but I had been planning it for when the kids go back as I have more time to myself. It's my little secret and I've been building up and so excited for this to happen and now it might be over. Now I don't know what to do, what do I say to my lover? I feel guilt for him and for the kids. I need advice.
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Paula99 - 10 Sep, 2023 - 07:54PM
NNW… do you always fight others battles?
This is a chat forum …if you want to join it then you must be able to take the good and the bad…we can’t please everyone so I don’t intend to try ….
If JRR doesn’t like my post she is welcome to explain her reasons as I have expressed mine 😁
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Naughty in NW - 10 Sep, 2023 - 05:22PM
Paula99
Regarding Jessica RR. Whilst I kinda agree with your point regarding understanding the 'concept of guilt', I think all of us on here need to be mindful that we know absolutely nothing about each other. Although JessicaRR is very young how do you know what's happened in her life and what has shaped her to date? Let's strive to not be judgemental of each other with sweeping statements that can be misconstrued or even hurtful.
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Paula99 - 10 Sep, 2023 - 04:04PM
JessicaRR…
You’re only 23 …you’re in a very young relationship and you have had no life skills/experiences to date …and basically you don’t understand the concept of your statement …this is so typical of the ‘entitled generation’ 😕
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JessicaRampantRabbit - 10 Sep, 2023 - 02:26PM
Guilt is just a societal repression. Don’t succumb to that. Be free and act how nature intended x
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1546721 - 08 Sep, 2023 - 09:38PM
Be honest and just rearrange
Paula99 - 08 Sep, 2023 - 05:57PM
…the way I see it is …if you are going to feel guilt it’s got naff all to do with the school term beginning or the building falling down?🙄
If you were going to meet your lover and your great Aunt Fanny decided that she needed a new zimmer frame then you should be able to communicate with your IE.. but I do think there is more to this question than meets the eye ..
If you are feeling ‘guilty’ then this game isn’t for you…you do need to be fully clued up an expect the unexpected😁
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1622004 - 08 Sep, 2023 - 03:55PM
It is natural to feel that guilt as an extra marital lover is out of "normal" society. But you need to live your life and enjoy yourself. We all get one amazing life and I do not want to end it thinking "I wish I had...."
accept your feelings, understand them and do what you want or need to. Your lover will understand if you need to delay but do take time for yourself and if you still want him he will be there for you to have some sensual fun with.
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laugar164 - 08 Sep, 2023 - 03:33PM
Paula,Eo I'm all ways optimistic glass is all ways full
Come sip from my cup
Of life
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