Should I feel guilty?
"Help IE! I'm worried the kid's school might be closed this week because of this news about concrete collapsing and having to homeschool again. Schools in Essex are affected but I don't know for sure yet. I know this might sound terrible, but in the past few weeks I have been planning to meet a lover I met online as soon as I dropped the kids off.
It's not the first time I have had an affair, but I had been planning it for when the kids go back as I have more time to myself. It's my little secret and I've been building up and so excited for this to happen and now it might be over. Now I don't know what to do, what do I say to my lover? I feel guilt for him and for the kids. I need advice.
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1574156 - 06 Sep, 2023 - 08:45AM
Not sure you should feel any guilt. I mean there must be an understanding that unfortunately kids/life does come in the way of our perfect plans. You gotta revisit the plans with your lover and find another date. I am sure if tables are turned and he/she had an emergency you would be ok with it as well.
Whatmorals2000 - 05 Sep, 2023 - 08:16PM
Good chance to cement a new relationship?
Or Block the new one?
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1588157 - 05 Sep, 2023 - 01:04PM
If you have an EMA with a builder you can kill two birds with one stone.
You can sort the kids school roof out and have your affair .....although knowing most builders you cant get the buggers to come round when they promises to and they leave site with the job half finished.
P911
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1575958 - 05 Sep, 2023 - 12:51PM
Agree with what is being said. I don't have kids, but if I were seeing someone who did, then obviously the kids come first. There will undoubtedly be opportunities along the way and perhaps the wait will make the occasion even more memorable ...
Paula99 - 04 Sep, 2023 - 06:11PM
TBH…
I think it’s the reference to concrete that’s the winner 😂😂😂
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Pink Eiga - 04 Sep, 2023 - 05:06PM
Not sure why this should even be an issue? Fear of losing someone the OP has never met? Can that online entity even be considered a lover yet? In any case, if a genuine connection is there, like everybody else, the other party will wait. If not, then it is time to move on.
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ExoticOrchid - 04 Sep, 2023 - 04:11PM
Paula99 - 04 Sep, 2023 - 01:43PM
"Is this for real or what ?"
Indeed ... I'm struggling to understand what/where the worry and guilt is for here!!!
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laugar164 - 04 Sep, 2023 - 03:34PM
Anyone entering an affair should understand the family come first affairs should be fun when they are not its time to finish
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Perfect moments - 04 Sep, 2023 - 02:43PM
I am sorry but family should always come first.
If your IE has got family I am sure he will understand.
And if he doesn't and gets moody about it then it's time to move on.
bobloblaw10 - 04 Sep, 2023 - 02:28PM
Life gets in the way. Kids should definitely come first. Just tell him, if he reacts poorly to it then you'll have potentially dodged a bullet.
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