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1447655 - 29 Sep, 2023 - 10:01PM

Completely agree FluffyClouds

FluffyClouds - 29 Sep, 2023 - 09:49PM

I get more annoyed when 'casual' profiles contact me when I clearly say I'm not looking for that. In do see 'casual' as just that, one offs or minimal effort at connection. As for anyone portraying themselves as looking for long term, when they're genuinely not, really needs to have a good think about their coercive tactic, because that's what it is.

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1447655 - 29 Sep, 2023 - 09:41PM

Laugar...

I'm suspicious of the term 'bunny boiler' (and no, im not aware its been levelled at me.) Thing is, it's never levelled at men, and that makes me smell a rat. I have guys that just will not disappear until I block them, on and off here. Relentless, and never take a no, popping up like zombies. But men aren't called 'bunny boilers', just pests, yet one term is distinctly more degrading than the other.

Men seem to like to think a woman gets obsessed with them, but usually it's the man's behaviour driving a woman nuts. I only wish there were men worth getting obsessed with on here, but sadly there isn't.

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laugar164 - 29 Sep, 2023 - 09:20PM

Eliza boo
I agree with most of you comments with the exception of this
. It's OK dude, we don't want to steal you from your wife, in
I had one lady who definitely was a bunny boiler and very scheming
Lucky I got out fast

1447655 - 29 Sep, 2023 - 08:03PM

To add to the casual comment, men who state "I don't take myself too seriously". What? Well if you don't, I sure as hell won't! Are they professional clowns maybe, or those guys who still believe women want a 'funny man' (it's very draining after a while).

Or the profiles that mention wanting "fun" 27 times. Maybe they need a children's entertainer instead of a woman?

Or worst of all, the ones who mention not wanting to change their marriage, rock the boat or any 'drama' every paragraph...these sensitive sould are simply not up for this life. It's OK dude, we don't want to steal you from your wife, in any way!

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ExoticOrchid - 27 Sep, 2023 - 09:49PM

Ladies ... he's a lost cause ... same old record every time and all of us are tarred with his bitter brush ... sad man ... I suppose we should feel sorry for him ... 🤔🙄

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Legs&Eyes - 27 Sep, 2023 - 09:43PM

I'VE also posted to mipaulac about his comments, but my message appears to not have being allowed thru the admins.......


SHAME!

Naughty in NW - 27 Sep, 2023 - 08:49PM

Mipaulac

I agree with Paula99.

In my opinion you appear a little bitter. Is this the right site for you? Obviously I don't know what your experiences on here have been to date so forgive me if I appear judgemental.

Plenty of us on here are NOT looking for sugar daddies or any other form of material expectation or 'transaction'. Many of us are strong independent women who seek the same as you, based on mutual respect and upfront communication so there are no misunderstandings or misconceptions. Congruence is everything. Ironic, I know, but many of us on here are able to be more open with our 'secondary' relationships than our "primary' ones. Just be upfront and hopefully that will serve you better.

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Paula99 - 27 Sep, 2023 - 07:14PM

Mipaulac……

There are some on here that want to have a comfy bed …none of us are getting any younger plus the thought of being in the back of some old work van fills me with dread…

I see you are still harping on about ‘value for money ‘😁

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mipaulac - 27 Sep, 2023 - 12:09AM

Paul1769 - 26 Sep, 2023 - 10:03PM
What you're referring to by casual is a fuck buddy or friend with benefits which in the real world is essentially what an illicit affair is.
Unfortunately this site is more about additional "benefits" rather than a friend who wants to have sex with you and mutual love/desire .
The ethos here is the more you pay the more you'll find 😄