Comments (107)

FunDate - 16 May, 2025 - 11:30PM

Having had enough stalkers in my life I am very protective of my privacy and I make it clear that I will take my time revealing who I am.

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Cheryl Kim - 16 May, 2025 - 08:36PM

I used to get sent a photo every day from an IE. Same style of photo - a selfie from his car after work. Tbf, they were nice selfies, and we did meet, but on hindsight, they were rather unnecessary.

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laugar164 - 16 May, 2025 - 07:31PM

Dream free and easy
There's more to starting a relationship then just pictures it takes patience understanding to develop a relationship that's going to work and last

DramaFree&Easy - 16 May, 2025 - 07:19PM

@Paula99

Why only 1 pic? If you’ve revealed your image then what difference does another pic or two make?

Someone I was chatting with on here a while ago started asking for pictures of me at work etc throughout the day.. I wasn’t keen on that tbh. However, I lose interest if I’m receiving minimal conversation and no photos to create intrigue.

Paula99 - 16 May, 2025 - 05:03PM

I recently had an experience on here …I was chatting to a guy and I explained that I can’t chat all the time and it does stare in my profile …. He was sending me pictures not nudity but I just thought hmmm this is way to much for me …I sent him one picture of me which he liked …I didn’t hear from him for 3 days so I sent a message to ask if he wanted to continue….then he said that he had been sharing pictures of other women ( of which I wasn’t concerned)… but it was all too quick for me …he said the other women were ‘sharing more ‘ so I replied .. not discreet enough for me and good luck with that idea and goodbye ….

He will be back 🙄

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sherylgom889 - 16 May, 2025 - 02:54PM

I am new as well ,I hope to find someone soon

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MagicMouse321 - 07 May, 2025 - 08:51PM

Much like GDPR …any information which, directly or indirectly, could identify me: Surname, address, phone number are the classics I don’t share.

Other than that anything goes. I’m really happy to share everything else.

(Just don’t want someone turning up on my door step, or sending cards etc)

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marklondonengland - 07 May, 2025 - 06:28PM

@EmnEm123
You are exactly right - it would concern me a lot more if someone insisted on talking on the phone, rather than switching to an app... should we use a rotary dial as well?

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EmnEm123 - 07 May, 2025 - 05:50PM

New-Lover

I wouldn't share all of my personal details with anyone from here either. However, I don't see the problem with moving to an app, it's easier than here and you don't have to exchange telephone numbers.

New-Lover - 07 May, 2025 - 02:55PM

I have never given my full details to anyone from this site. I give generalised details. If pushed, I am honest and explain I am in no rush and want to get to know a man in time not all in one hit and if they suggest moving to a chat app I instantly feel uncomfortable. I would much prefer to talk on the phone when ready x

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