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Red Flags 🚩

We hear regularly about the 'Red Flags' that turn people off a person in conversation and dates/meets. What have been your 'Red Flag' experiences during conversations and/or first dates? What lifted up the 🚩 for you? Or maybe it was a few 🚩 and worthy of bunting?

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Funguy77 - 03 Aug, 2024 - 11:39AM

@ Enigma.. - 03 Aug, 2024 - 11:04AM

Give me the lines you want and I’ll right your song lol 😂


Enigma.. - 03 Aug, 2024 - 11:15AM

@Funguy77

Pmsl… a red bull 😂😉😝.

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Enigma.. - 03 Aug, 2024 - 11:04AM

@FluffyClouds

Looks like we have the same list… lol 😂.

Dearie… that has made my day, my week, my month and even my year 😃😉.

Methinks there’s a song can be made out of that line lol 😂😉

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motor484 - 02 Aug, 2024 - 06:54PM

People looking for love and expect regular availability or the potential for weekends away.

How is that feasible with your primary relationship being with someone else?

Although not unreasonable for someone divorced or separated I find the expectation of a "monogamous" or exclusive affair a bit strange. It raises a concern around possessiveness and the requirement for attention which maybe what is driving their need for an affair but is a potential problem if you wish to not have your secret life invade your "real" one.

To some extent it does depend on each individual's definition of "affair"...

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1691031 - 02 Aug, 2024 - 05:50PM

Subscription finishes tonight, here is my kik, telegram and email contacts.
This message is always followed by several more. Next day they are still online?

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Funguy77 - 02 Aug, 2024 - 04:57PM

Red flag has attracted a Bull 👍🚩

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duncs_2000 - 02 Aug, 2024 - 04:08PM

Paula99

You are funny and considerate in your posts. I don't match any of those red flags! Can I be the guy for you please? :)

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Paula99 - 02 Aug, 2024 - 03:50PM

Funguy77….

Contrary to what you think there is a guy for me …..and he bears no red flag 🚩

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Funguy77 - 02 Aug, 2024 - 03:38PM

P99 lol So what does that leave you with that’s quite a list of red flags 🚩

Is there anyone out there for P99 🤦‍♂️

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Paula99 - 02 Aug, 2024 - 03:28PM

Ok so more red 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

Recently separated/divorced…feeling alone

Widowed/Retirement ….cross roads

Not had an affair for some years…they think it’s going to be easy..

Busy lifestyle aka hobbies/sports/work/ god knows what else…

Just about to go on holiday ….wife is packing/he’s short of things to do..

Wife is away and he’s getting restless…feeling lost ..

Partner is ill / disabled…

Images taken some years ago/hats /sunglasses?

Just moved into a new house/flat…do they think it’s going to decorate and furnish itself …

And last of all moaning about the cost of IE and ….still not reading my profile 😖







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