Tall Dark and Handsome (TDH)
Most of the lasses are searching for the elusive "Tall, Dark and Handsome (TDH) bloke". Plus they want him to be humorous, rich, flashy cars, amazing holidays, brilliant shopping trips and lasting in bed until cows come home! I understand that if you want to dream and demand then might as well go for the sky. But are you missing the trick here? Are you discounting genuine gentlemen who might be average looking but are great human beings? They might not have six packs and"Arnold muscles", but they can be sensitive and humorous and probably great in bed as well?
So my quick question - if physical attributes are a mismatch + you want to keep the whole thing a secret affair then how much does those "physical features" matter to you? Is your end goal not to have a great time whenever you meet? Each lass over here probably has around at least 20 lads chasing her and probably she can afford to be choosy ... but does it really work out?
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EmnEm123 - 11 Sep, 2024 - 10:46PM
Be as picky as you want to be. If others want to settle for anything leave them to it!
Not sure where all this flash cars and holidays garage is coming from though?
Plus, this is just a rehash of a previous thread
SparkSeeker - 11 Sep, 2024 - 06:20PM
I sort of say live and let live. Personally, I'm not the checklist/cookie cutter sort of person. For me, as I suspect with others, there are avoids and then there needs to be some spark of attraction from photo and profile (and anyone who uses profile generator is just out for me š¤£? If someone came at me with that list I'd just ignore it.
Delicious Chaos - 11 Sep, 2024 - 06:13PM
Erm OP, where are you finding these women? Iām sure the majority on here are not looking for that all!!
For me GSOH and a decent human being nail it for me, yes theyāve got to be attractive to me but I couldnāt disagree with that statement
Kinky1973 - 11 Sep, 2024 - 03:33PM
So the one affair I have had was based on messaging for over six months without a picture until our circumstances changed. By that time I had formed an emotional attachment (not love) mainly we just became really good friends. Yes you did have to have some qualities that your partner likes but I am not Tom Cruise so please accept me for being me. Isnāt that what most women want to be desired for the person they are not what someone wants them to be?
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1694122 - 11 Sep, 2024 - 11:23AM
Nothing wrong with a woman wanting tdh..unfortunately I'm th but bald..lol..just an age thing I suppose.. but women can afford to be more choosy in this line of dating
Enigma.. - 11 Sep, 2024 - 10:51AM
Iāll tell you what the problem with this site is.
Both males and females judging people on looks alone.
Not getting to know the person or their personalities.
Judge away. Dismiss away. Ghost. Block.
Well hereās an actual factā¦
Youāll be the one thatās left alone šš¤·š¼āāļøššš«¤.
Why for being to picky.
Then when, in males cases, the membership is running out itās suddenlyā¦
Yesā¦ roll up, roll upā¦ welcome to fantasy land .
Good luck š
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laugar164 - 11 Sep, 2024 - 09:43AM
Well this made me chuckle
How to post and make sure the genuine lady's keep a wide birth of you some people will never learn š
Paula99 - 11 Sep, 2024 - 09:12AM
Double07ā¦Jesus Mary and Josephā¦.another one for the violins š»
Paula99 - 11 Sep, 2024 - 08:12AM
Pink Eigaā¦
A wise woman you areā¦š
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