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Attractiveness is...

Men, what do you find attractive in a female? Fashion, makeup, figure, looks, personality?

Women, what do you find attractive in a man? Suits, casual, formal, hair, height, size, personality?

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Here we go 693 - 15 Mar, 2025 - 10:48PM

None of the above. I like someone I can talk to, someone who gets me. Height, size etc is all pretty irrelevant if you can't communicate. As Im sure has been said on these pages before, the most sexual organ of the brain, use it. Even if it's those hard to talk about topics, get that grey matter working. It funny how people can be more passionate about something they're interested in than sex itself...

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tmn2024 - 14 Mar, 2025 - 06:17PM

Confidence is everything. That's all.

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Right Turn - 14 Mar, 2025 - 02:23PM

Courtesy, engagement and a realistic ev6o.

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MSD1985 - 14 Mar, 2025 - 06:12AM

Honestly give me a bigger bodied lad (BBW), someone who is themself not focussed on what society tells them we want

Deep eyes, nice smile ....needs to be able to chat and hold conversation too......

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George2000 - 14 Mar, 2025 - 12:20AM

I used to think a woman had to be slim and look good to be attractive. However, through life experiences I now know the opposite is true. Women (like men) com in all shapes and sizes and while there has to be a physical attraction on both sides it’s the personality that really matters.
I’ve been told I’m Sapiosexuality (yes I had to look it up as well) and like women to be strong minded but if they can also show bit a femininity to go with it, I just can’t resist.

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Kinky-Fun - 13 Mar, 2025 - 09:07PM

Look on its own will only get you a fucker, charm and a great personality will get you a lover. So anyone with substance over image definitely for me.

I do appreciate witty and confident ladies (not arrogant. A lot of those on IE unfortunately) who like to tease and be teased and can be trusted to discuss any subject. A confident , a lover and a friend ready to ignite my inner flame.

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laugar164 - 13 Mar, 2025 - 06:59PM

A great sense of humour open to new ideas in the bedroom a cheeky smile and eyes that say come and get me along with a pulse 😂


Toffee.macchiato4 - 13 Mar, 2025 - 05:06PM

Hmm 🤔 some interesting thoughts here
I would say am attracted to tall cute guys (my idea of cute is pertinent to me perhaps)
Really good manners are so sexy can’t explain why 🤷‍♀️
A well dressed man oofftt 🔥
Add in a brilliant 🤩 sense of humour and am all goeeyyy


KerryElizabeth - 13 Mar, 2025 - 10:44AM

Being a short larger lady, I often find I'm not what most men are looking for. However, there are some who get to know me, and I'm told I'm a lovely person who is very bubbly.
So for me, I value a man's personality over looks any day. I like a man who is sincere, and is someone I can have a laugh with.

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1761341 - 13 Mar, 2025 - 09:41AM

Fun personality above everything. If you can hold a conversation and make each other laugh, for me nothing else matters

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