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Feeling Blue


I have been talking to a wonderful woman for some time. We are meeting next week for drinks and maybe more. Has anyone used Viagra as an aid? Will the woman mind? I really like her but feel nervous as it has been so long since anyone has taken an interest in me. I do not want to disappoint.

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rarity23 - 25 May, 2025 - 11:54PM

From a male point of view, I certainly wouldn't be looking to have sex on first date !

If you have ED issues, always best to raise this with your prospective partner.
If you don't have ED, and think of Viagra as an aid, then I think you would be wasting your time taking it

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Life is a beach - 25 May, 2025 - 09:46PM

There are many misconceptions about taking viagra
First of all if the man is not aroused by you, it won't work! They will be floppy despite the pill.
Secondly, if you arouse him, you can have sex, then breaks between sex snd then enjoy other again.
No, the blue pill doesn't mean someone is going to try and bang you for four hours 😅.
You could share with her it's your first time if you wanted to.

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Ian1123 - 25 May, 2025 - 08:44PM

they can be harmful if overtaken i belive check with doc and good luck mate if she likes you be open

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Gentleman (mostly) - 25 May, 2025 - 05:30PM

I’ haven’t used it due to any concerns, but have on a handful of occasions simply to ensure I delivered. And from this perspective, well based on what I’ve been told afterwards, it certainly helped. Great to help you keep going

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Paula99 - 25 May, 2025 - 03:32PM

Ok people …Viagra and other ED meds must be taken on an empty stomach half to an hour before you have sex…despite what people think the you will be walking around with a ‘stiffy’ all day and all night …ED meds don’t work like that ….there has to be stimulation/foreplay and help to ‘get hard’ but remaining hard is still an issue so don’t go thinking that Viagra is a magic cure …..
Another factor to this is stress/lack of sleep and general anxiety’s can cause the medication to fail….you do need to be ‘ in a good place mentally’ to maximise the effects of Viagra…beware ED meds can’t be prescribed with certain drugs and they are prescription only….

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Delicious Chaos - 25 May, 2025 - 02:26PM

Tmn

Yes action time, not my words but if you google it (patient access) it’s their words!

You didn’t need to disclose my friend it was clear you use it. Plus people’s reactions to it are very different and yes you can have an erection for a long time, hence why I would be running for the hills if I was faced with that on a first meet in the bedroom

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Cheryl Kim - 25 May, 2025 - 02:09PM

Delicious Chaos - 25 May, 2025 - 12:30PM

That’s when we add lube to the shopping basket, with or without Viagra propping him up 😁

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tmn2024 - 25 May, 2025 - 01:24PM

Delicious Chaos,

"Action time"?? 🤣

Viagra gives you a four hour window within which time it helps achieve and maintain an erection. It does NOT increase your normal sex drive, nor does it turn you into some sort of super human jackhammer.

Disclosure time - I use it sometimes. The reason I use it is because I'm not a full of oats 20 year old any more, and I find that using condoms kills sensation to the point where I can get it up but then struggle to keep it up. Viagra helps me overcome that problem very effectively, but it does not turn me into an out of control hound dog that might spend four straight hours humping. My own hips would be turned into dust if it did.

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ClassyLady77 - 25 May, 2025 - 01:21PM

Don’t presume you will get some action first meet.. i definitely don’t do that first meet and I’m sure lots of Women on here don’t too

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Delicious Chaos - 25 May, 2025 - 12:30PM

Tmn
I believe a single dose of viagra will give you an action time of 4 hours. I’m sorry but if I was faced with a hard cock for 4 hours on a first meet I would be running for hills and off to the chemist for some sudacrem!! 😁

Slow and steady for me


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