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Enigma.. - 02 Jun, 2025 - 07:51AM

@tmn2024

I’ll keep this simple because, I hate to post this, but it very obviously has to be 🙄🤷🏼‍♀️.
Flirt Forum is for members to offer their opinions on the original question being asked wither they agree or disagree with what other members are posting and their opinions.
Thus leading to “discussions”.
Flirt Forum is here to help other members by offering advice, when asked for, and by sharing experiences… both good and bad.
But some members seem to have missed the whole point of Flirt Forum.
I suspect that the majority of members who post, on a fairly regular basis and actually understand what has been posted, are now getting fed up with those who seem to misunderstand and misinterpret said posts.
You have totally misunderstood what I have posted…
That’s the biggest problem on Flirt Forum some members misunderstanding what is being posted and getting all defensive and argumentative when other members try and be helpful and point this out to them 🙄🤷🏼‍♀️�

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Cheryl Kim - 02 Jun, 2025 - 06:18AM

Going back to the OP: Some people can write reams about how amazing they are and yet leave me unmoved. Others have me in stitches and wanting more from simple, yet incredibly witty one liners. I know which type of man I tend to meet, and meet again.

Paula99 - 02 Jun, 2025 - 05:31AM

Over the past couple of days it has become clear that some members are taking this all very personally..
Finding an IE and retaining one takes a lot of patience and some decide it’s not for them …everyone to their own ..

Having a constant stream of indiscretions and discussions about failures only lead to negativity…the forum will morph into a competition…who is the one with the more success…who is the one with the least success etc etc …IE isn’t like other websites and there isn’t one to match it at the moment…it’s important we retain what we have here ……everyone gets some input but if you are not emotionally balanced and can’t debate the topics without being defensive then you shouldn’t be here ……Simple

1786594 - 01 Jun, 2025 - 02:26PM

Some people need to practise what they preach.

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tmn2024 - 01 Jun, 2025 - 01:01PM

Enigma.. - 01 Jun, 2025 - 06:39AM

I was about to stand up and applaud your post until I got to the last line.

Why, pray tell, are we not to be allowed discuss our failures or lack or success on the forums?

I mean, for one - you seem to be advocating for the shutting down of discussions about failures which if shared may result in better outcomes for the future.

Secondly - I'm afraid that you appear to have contradicted yourself. At first you were gunning for everyone being able to freely use these forums without being shouted down by others, but then you slapped your own conditions on their use.

Close. You played that ball all the way from mid field so skillfully but in the end you drove it wide 🫣

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Enigma.. - 01 Jun, 2025 - 06:39AM

The whole point of Flirt Forum, or so I thought, is to share your opinions, experiences and to offer some advice…

Everyone is entitled to post their opinion/opinions regardless of wither others agree with them or not.
If you don’t agree with an opinion then there is no point in taking a hissy fit and retaliating🤷🏼‍♀️. Seriously 🙄.
We have all been through different experiences, both the good, the bad and the downright ridiculous 😂, but it’s good to share those experiences especially if it can help other members.
Sharing thoughtful and positive advice can also help other members.
What doesn’t help is the argumentative, negative, defensive and entitled (or so they think) smart arses who have started posting or have come back onto Flirt Forum (😏🙄🤷🏼‍♀️) and are posting, yet again 🥱😴 their 💩.
Before you add a post reread it before you post it… just in case it could be misinterpreted by others.
Oh! And don’t bring your lack of success on the site

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Paula99 - 31 May, 2025 - 10:28PM

It’s always good to see respectful comments…, I am sure the posts below ring true with lots of people…

Great advice ladies

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ExoticOrchid - 31 May, 2025 - 09:50PM

It seems to me, reading the recent comments here, some people bring their personal disappointments from private interactions onto the Forum ... if someone rejects you, take it on the chin like a man ... have some respect both for yourself and the other person. Simples.

It would also help if people read comments carefully before getting the wrong end of the stick and going on the attack and making a fool of themselves.

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Cheryl Kim - 31 May, 2025 - 01:12PM

People on IE who have actually had affairs share their experience on this forum, whether we like or agree with what they say. I personally have found it invaluable when first starting out. Experienced people may be blunt with facts that a newbie cannot yet see, but nobody is out to make your life difficult. It is all part of the learning about this lifestyle. You won’t suit everybody, and neither will everybody suit you. This is IE.

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MarkSWL - 31 May, 2025 - 12:39PM

Everyone is different and therefore the question encourages generalization that probably is misleading. We all just want that connection