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Life is a beach - 23 Nov, 2023 - 10:27PM

LadyDee,
Thank you. I am so glad you have now got a great lover. It sounds like you had a lucky escape from the first person! He didn't deserve you.
Dotty Green,
I completely agree with you, if it is a one way street, it is good that you took the difficult decision to let go in the end. It is the best decision you took, there is no point in being with someone who makes you unhappy overall. I did have one previous relationship out of IE that I wish I had ended a long time before it ended, but I learnt I hope!
All,
It is so difficult, we need to keep reminding ourselves that we are here to be happier and not let anyone make us feel more unhappy than before we joined this site. We joined to meet someone who makes us happy and we can make happy.
It takes time but there is someone good out there.
I didn't think it would happen but I found a lovely person I am very happy with. There is hope out there for all.

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1614937 - 22 Nov, 2023 - 11:14PM

Brewdicca - 22 Nov, 2023 - 12:25PM

Women are the same - wizard-generated profiles (that often don't make sense), no (public) photographs and nothing on an "Ideal Partner". 5'2"-5'6" with a curvaceous body and "other" job! Choosing is hard and writing a personalised message is even harder! No wonder that some choose the blunderbus approach! But there's a diamond out there, somewhere...

Brewdicca - 22 Nov, 2023 - 12:25PM

It ‘a definitely a big reason- but sadly I have yet to meet anyone suitable on here!
Why do so many men have terrible photos or not even bother to personalise their profile or even say what they are looking for?!!

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1296520 - 16 Nov, 2023 - 10:06AM

Totally...having that special secret someone with whom you can be someone other than "dad/husband", is a wonderful feeling. The fact that they want you, desire you & crave you is an absolute turn on ! x

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LadyDe - 15 Nov, 2023 - 10:49PM

Lifeisabeach

I could have done with you a while ago. Been chatting for a a few weeks and was going to meet but a few hrs before he bailed … yes I felt sad put so much effort and emotion into the build up of meeting..after reading your post I have to realise that he’s the e one missing out and how i Value myself too I have a great grown up ie lover now where we can speak honestly and openly

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1529050 - 15 Nov, 2023 - 11:30AM

Life is a beach - 14 Nov, 2023 - 05:55PM

What a great post! I 100% agree if a lover is making you sad or upset or burdening you with their problems - I would def say move on.

My first affair from here - I had someone who was all about him and his issues his problems, and whilst we had some fun and great sex towards the end, I felt a very one way street. As it was my first affair from here (not my first affair) I feel it let it go on longer that it needed to. Now I know what I want and need from an affair and I am very up front with this so a prospective new affair knows what to expect and whether they want to embark on a journey or not, N

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Pink Eiga - 14 Nov, 2023 - 07:18PM

Life is a beach - 14 Nov, 2023 - 05:55PM

100% agree that there should be a feel good factor in all of this. Afterall we are here for a supplement to our life, not to add to the worries and anxieties that we already have.

May happy thoughts continue for you and all of us! 🥰

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Life is a beach - 14 Nov, 2023 - 05:55PM

TheBoredHousewife - 12 Nov, 2023 - 08:51AM
Thank you 😘. It was unexpected. It is great to meet someone who makes you feel happy and that you can also make happy.

All,
If you have met someone who makes you sad or who doesn't value you, you don't deserve that! They don't deserve you.
Most of are all here to find someone we feel good with, and that we make them feel good too.
There will always be some players, men and women, those people don't deserve you!
Always look out for early signs, don't ignore your gut feeling, do they go ages without even saying a simple hello?
I would always meet someone in a public place first, before deciding on second meeting, no matter how well I got on with them online (it did help a lot).
There is someone good out there for you.

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Pink Eiga - 14 Nov, 2023 - 05:06PM

Legs&Eyes - 14 Nov, 2023 - 02:37PM

What ExoticOrchid said. His loss, and probably a lucky escape for you 😊

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1632896 - 14 Nov, 2023 - 03:21PM

Nope.