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Doctor13702 - 22 Feb, 2024 - 02:04PM

Not on IE but I have had a series of reasonably long term liaisons.
Each time the pressures of life have meant we've taken different paths and whilst that's hurt at the time I look back now and accept that this is the nature of the beast.

Purple dreamer - 22 Feb, 2024 - 07:39AM

Have not found this yet but hopefully i will find what you have
Your very lucky

MissBrandy - 22 Feb, 2024 - 01:12AM

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1650790 - 21 Feb, 2024 - 05:44PM

I had an incredible relationship for two years. Long distance but we made it work. Till we couldn’t anymore. Life stuff meant her priorities changed and things just frizzled between us. It hurt bad at the time but I look back at that time with nothing but cherished memories. Now it’s time to move on.

rarity23 - 21 Feb, 2024 - 04:12PM

Having used IE for several years, I have had good 6 month relationships, and one of over a year.
There have been a few one off's along the way.

At the end of the day you get a feeling for how it's going and whether the other person is on the same wavelength, and probably more important than in the real world, communication is key

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Life is a beach - 21 Feb, 2024 - 03:17PM

Pink Eiga,
Thank you. Yes, you somehow know from earlier on. You do get that gut feeling, sometimes good and sometimes not so good. It has saved me before.

Paula,
Very wise words.. I agree.

Do everything you can to protect both your family and your IE so that you don't end up hurting yourself or your loved ones including your IE. This is key to a good lasting relationship

Fulfilling IE relationships exist. Some of you have also been lucky enough to find one of these.

Good luck everyone!

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Paula99 - 18 Feb, 2024 - 07:08PM

If you are with your lover for a number of years then it’s inevitable that your feelings will become deeper …anyone who denies that… hasn’t been in a long term relationship..
As long as you both have your boundaries and you discuss your limits and your family life then you can’ be a little in love ‘ for the moment of the meeting and then when it’s over your first thought is home/family ..
It’s not easy to compartmentalise this but it can be done over a long period of time…don’t expect to do this overnight..🤞

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Pink Eiga - 17 Feb, 2024 - 11:06PM

Life is a beach - 17 Feb, 2024 - 09:21PM

Good things do indeed happen when we least expect them. You and your IE do sound really into each other.

When you know, you know! 😊

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Life is a beach - 17 Feb, 2024 - 09:21PM

I have been reading comments. Not sure how the threesome question came into the answers to the original post . I understand the relevance. For some of you if not most, it was the beginning of the end sadly.
Personally, I have developed feelings for my I.E, I would hate to be shared or share him! He knows that and also feels the same. There are good things that should never be shared in my opinion.
Whilst the post says they have been in lust for several years but not in love. I have been lucky enough to not only find lust but also love. I think I am genuinely lucky.
No, I will never agree to be shared, let alone share him. I completely agree with comments about giving your I.E. full attention. He knows I wouldn't ever consider sharing nor would he!
It has been going strong for several months and I hope it goes into several years. There is hope for all of us. I honestly didn't expect this to happen.
Good luck everyone, good things do happen when we least expect!

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James with the bluest eyes - 16 Feb, 2024 - 11:24AM

I had a beautiful and fulfilling relationship that last about 2 years. At first we just talked as she had not been listened too or had anybody listen to her heart and what she wanted.
Then soon after came the first kiss. It was refreshing passionate and we really bonded and it brought a great deal of happiness into our lives.
We both knew in the end that it would be best to part, but we still send each other birthday messages.

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