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Would Using Lube Make You Feel Inadequate?

Do you take lube on your hotel meets? When women get to a certain age, they sometimes need a bit of help in the lubrication department due to hormones and the menopause. Have you used lube? Do you expect lube? Would you, as a man, be offended if lube was used?

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Comments (161)

1782658 - 02 Jun, 2025 - 07:39PM

Hmm..I find no need for lube if you have a 9 " tongue and can breathe through your ears ..just saying :-)


Felixcited - 02 Jun, 2025 - 04:57PM

Absolutely nothing wrong with using lube it can add to the enjoyment and make that special someone very happy!


Pakman100 - 26 May, 2025 - 09:07AM

Lube? Never a question of inadequacy, only of intention.
I’m not here to prove something. I’m here to create something slow, responsive, deeply felt. And if that means adding something that heightens her pleasure, deepens sensation, or lets us explore without interruption, then yes I’ll reach for it without hesitation.

There’s nothing sexier than a woman feeling completely at ease in her own body. If lube helps open the door to that, then it’s just another tool in the art of anticipation.

So yes, I bring it. Not because I expect it, but because I believe in being ready when the moment says, more.

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LadyDe - 25 May, 2025 - 02:22PM

@justforfun

Spot on you’ve completely got the point… lube can be playful and fun 😈

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Justforfun890 - 25 May, 2025 - 01:15PM

Some of the comments on here are unbelievable.

Bringing lube along with you is confident and sexy. Use it on him first. Smear some on your nipples. My point is lube is a fun addition to the bedroom - don’t think of it as a necessary evil, think of it as a bit of fun. If you’re really worried about it and you imagining passionate sex where you rip each others clothes off or have sex with your clothes on, then go and ‘powder your nose’ beforehand and apply some then, that way he’ll think you’re already really wet for him. Personally I think that’s a bad idea, it’s not honest and could become an issue when you meet again.

Anyway they’re my views as a 49 year old guy.

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Fun_male - 25 May, 2025 - 01:07PM

Definitely wouldnt be offended. If we are doing a hotel meet the purpose is great sex. Whatever helps with that then use it


Delicious Chaos - 25 May, 2025 - 12:33PM

Spot on Dave 2025

Any guy who would recoil at the thought of lube clearly has no clue. Perhaps they should try taking something without lube and see how they get on.

Yes there are women who don’t need it and lucky them but if a woman needs it there’s generally a very good reason for it

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LadyDe - 25 May, 2025 - 10:55AM

@kisses the texture of velvet

🤣🤭😈

Thank you, well my army ranking is based on the same first letter … ie General (glass dildo) 🤣 it was clearly a Bridgerton thing in Covid 🤣🤣
Good luck with CBD oil some better than others

@Enigma
I agree they all need more imagination here 🤣😈


Enigma.. - 25 May, 2025 - 10:44AM

Lube!?!

And here was me thinking you lot were a little more imaginative than that 🤷🏼‍♀️🤣😉.


Dave 2025 - 25 May, 2025 - 10:24AM

Lube is essential for any couple as it makes it less painful and more enjoyable especially with the more mature and experienced the women is. So absolutely yes !!

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