When should you end it?
So, you have been seeing your perfect affair partner for a few months and then you notice that what was once a steamy affair with both parties being really into it, is now just like your relationship with your OH with you trying your best to keep them interested and constantly wondering if you are actually ‘one of many’ after-all.
Yes, they show up for their ‘once per week’ as promised, but whereas before they would stay a while, they are out the door straight away due to ‘work commitments’!
Is now the time to part ways? This is exactly what is missing, necessitating the need for an affair in the first place!
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87athleticbrown7size - 05 Jul, 2025 - 06:34PM
Communicate. Try not to bring pressure element.
A long lasting affair is worth some compromise. It's not like dead bedroom scenario in the affair. Getting a trustable long lasting affair is a gift and worth some adjustments.
1795916 - 03 Jul, 2025 - 01:56PM
I think in this situation it's definitely time to end it. The minute you start questioning like this, it means you aren't getting what you need from the affair. And both parties should be satisfied and feeling good. That's what it's all about.
Lorelei Lee - 29 Jun, 2025 - 04:26PM
Don't ever turn your IE into a legitimate relationship.
You both are a type... a type that wanders... It's not a bad thing but it is the reality. There are those that wander and those that don't. For some marriage is the ultimate commitment, and however tough it gets, or whatever the temptation, they remain and steadfast true. And then there are the rest of us... Looking for the shiny thing we have lost with significant other.
So if you are that shiny thing then please remember you will become tarnished and worn. Just enjoy it while it lasts and then move on. Affairs should be bubbles of excitement in our married lives... If you try to live the bubble, it will burst.
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Paula99 - 25 Jun, 2025 - 12:00PM
You should have headed straight for the exit …
Your post proves one thing …. You don’t know anyone until you meet them ….🛠️
The unscrupulous women make us good ones look terrible …🫤
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Peter Ashford - 25 Jun, 2025 - 11:28AM
I have had the oversite to this problem. I was happily setting up and she was quite keen, then when the bombshell dropped, She asked If I could financially help as customers had not paid her, then she started asking for iTunes payment cards to help her young one be entertained while we were in a hotel? I never even considered going that far early in a relationship.
All I will say is what out there about...
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Delicious Chaos - 22 Jun, 2025 - 12:22PM
Paula99
Completely agree re men and females, a lot of them put us to shame. Don’t know about anyone else though, this place is not what it used to be!
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Paula99 - 22 Jun, 2025 - 12:09PM
E O…
You were reading my mind …haha
DC..
I do think sometimes guys fall in head over heels and can’t control their emotions…hence playing the AG (avoidance game ) …. but women also play a similar part.
ExoticOrchid - 22 Jun, 2025 - 11:33AM
DC - 11:10AM
Most men flatter themselves that women, especially single women, will fall in love with them ... I hear enough of that from the men here ... no, been down the marriage route, done it, got the Tshirt ... just looking to "borrow" someone's husband now ... don't want one of my own!!!
So no, you're not the only one!
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Here we go 693 - 22 Jun, 2025 - 11:32AM
DC
Avoidance tactics? It's a big thing and maybe they think having an affair will make the husband bearable. Who knows!!??
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