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Paula99 - 06 Apr, 2025 - 10:01AM

The deep emotional connection that people fantasise about is like the Scarlet Pimpernel ….it is a rare thing but it can be found …like anything it takes time and patience…don’t give up to easily …having an affair is not easy but some things are worth the wait..Invest your money wisely and you will get a good return …🙂

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Kent Classy Gent 69 - 04 Apr, 2025 - 02:41PM

Everyone has different definition of a connection

For a lot of people physical attraction is key. So the best photos as possible. I actually prefer to share my password asap so I don't spend ages messaging only to be rejected when they see I'm not Brad Pitt.

I would also say that if you manage to message someone frequently and for more than 2-3 days try and get a social meeting date in the diary. Even before then a phone call. I like moving onto WhatsApp or Telegram too. All of this helps to build a connection.

You also need to be realistic. Woman get hundreds of messages and they have to make quick selection decisions. Put as much effort in as possible. It's noticed

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Paula99 - 03 Apr, 2025 - 08:45AM

Funguy77..

It’s a good job I got the spelling correct 🫡

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Funguy77 - 02 Apr, 2025 - 08:11PM

P99 loves her meet meet meet

Robespierre2295 - 02 Apr, 2025 - 07:08PM

Something resembling a normal conversation in messaging suggests a good start to me. If it’s like pulling teeth then I don’t think the connection will be made. But I agree with others the only real way to know is a social meet.

Paula99 - 02 Apr, 2025 - 06:59PM

You will only know if the person is right for you when you meet ….no amount of messaging/sexting will surfice …yes it will give you an idea but in the grand scheme of things …MEET….MEET… ASAP

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Teddybearhugs86 - 02 Apr, 2025 - 06:47PM

I’m wanting a connection which is fun and with benefits of the person is right. I just want to be able to enjoy life and be able to have some fun that doesn’t involve a lot of heavy feelings.

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MisterBreeze - 02 Apr, 2025 - 06:09PM

Agreed.
A connection can't be real, from just messaging. Sure, you can build an understanding and potential from messaging, but meeting is the acid test.

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Here we go 693 - 02 Apr, 2025 - 05:27PM

rarity23

That's the other side of the coin, it hurt like hell for quite some time after it ended... But it was worth every bit of heartache

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Cheryl Kim - 02 Apr, 2025 - 05:19PM

SirrahNek - 02 Apr, 2025 - 11:54AM

There is relaxed and there is clearly pussyfooting about. I am in the ‘meet only if there is potential’ camp. That means, not early. But if you are off site, chatting great, talking about possibilities of a meet irl, then it is best to get a move on if the other party’s acting positively. Get a date pencilled in before they lose interest.

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