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EmnEm123 - 05 Sep, 2024 - 03:29PM

Exotic

Recently you seem to be being rather pedantic for the sake of it.

EmnEm123 - 05 Sep, 2024 - 01:48PM

AthenaSings

You are contradicting yourself.

If you only share with people that you trust how could you have had your privacy invaded, when, as you state, you make yourself pretty private online.

Why do you care about fake profiles, surely we can spot them a mile off?

ExoticOrchid - 04 Sep, 2024 - 06:42PM

G1958 - 11:18PM

You get brownie points from me for this: "more fake parts than Carol Vorderman" ... brilliant!!! 👏🤣👏

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AthenaSings - 04 Sep, 2024 - 03:30PM

I guess if you give anyone your picture you’re opening yourself up to that risk anyway right? People do it even when single and on bumble/hinge etc.

As someone who has had their privacy greatly invaded, that honestly bothers me less than fake accounts.

You can make yourself pretty private and hard to find online. If you’re real and at the point of sharing yourself with someone whom you trust to have an affair with then anything they could find shouldn’t be an issue. Watch your back or don’t but you have to accept the risks you’re taking.

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Paula99 - 04 Sep, 2024 - 12:35PM

EE1123…

Totally agree with you…

AthenaSings - 28 Aug, 2024 - 01:59PM

And then try gaslight you for even asking… “I thought this was meant to be fun?”…

Also just getting mad defensive over anything, like in what world is that appealing to anyone? I get so many opening messages about how I better not be a gold digger and moaning about being sick of the expectation to pay… no I’m not a gold digger, what you’ve told me is you have no gold and you’re kinda an a** !!

Luna2016 - 27 Aug, 2024 - 08:26PM

Nasty red flag is when they message you days/ weeks later like it’s nothing!! Urm.. excuse me where you been?! 😂

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AthenaSings - 27 Aug, 2024 - 12:11PM

Red flags, red flags, every where, nor any without any methinks.

It is a shame that there isn’t somewhere those of the same gender could discuss experiences, have some support or even compare notes (!)

I could write a college essay on the flag show but would probably just be classed as difficult rather than boundaried.

I’m intrigued to other’s experiences of what gets my back up. Example:

🚩 The inclusion of a statement such as “must be able to construct a sentence” on a profile. It’s not that I don’t agree with this very basic expectation of another human being, my objection is the classist superior complex riddled shrunken manhood it stems from. And laughably… most people with this claim are quite witless.

🚩 While I concede that evolution and society have placed significant value on a woman’s youth, it does not make the experience of being bombarded with unsolicited attention or in fact dick pics any more satiable. You have children… grandchildren… my age… you d

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Bacchus111 - 14 Aug, 2024 - 11:40PM

I get that red flags potentially point to personality problems but why are spelling and grammar red flags?

Funguy77 - 04 Aug, 2024 - 12:06PM

Happy to assist lol here for a good time not a long time

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