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Ukspan - 04 Apr, 2025 - 03:04PM

Buy a Google phone, add a second number, enable Private mode where you can have a second set of apps that are completely ringfenced. This gives you a safe way to communicate without leaving a trace. I have phone, WhatsApp, Amazon, telegram and even a bank account totally stashed away to enable my skullduggery

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Kent Classy Gent 69 - 04 Apr, 2025 - 02:47PM

Have a separate private communications channel ie Telegram or Signal that you only use for your affair and not day to day

Ideally have separate bank account where hotel costs, lingerie expenses etc can't be seen

Don't tell anyone

Avoid weekend meet ups

Mid week during the day meets

A pre agreed communications rules ie no phone calls etc during certain times

Avoid meeting in public places where either of you will be known or recognised

Just be discreet and keep under the radar

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Paula99 - 03 Apr, 2025 - 08:51AM

LeggySheila..

Your affair would be a little too close to home for me …I just hope it doesn’t all go wrong…😊

leggysheila - 03 Apr, 2025 - 08:44AM

Difficult to be honest. We all have different lifestyles and wants I've been having a affair right in the open my husband and family know him but not what we get up to when we have the chance got to admit it adds to the excitement xx

Funguy77 - 02 Apr, 2025 - 08:23PM

@leggysheila

If you couldn’t see how did you know it was him 🤦

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Carer69 - 02 Apr, 2025 - 08:10PM

Invent an innocent story about why you are meeting. A business meet, a social survey whatever. Then if you are spotted you've told people already.

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Jimjames350 - 02 Apr, 2025 - 09:36AM

Ask a friend or a mate on here for accommodation

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leggysheila - 02 Apr, 2025 - 07:44AM

I was fucked by my future husband on our first date that was a blind date xxx

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ad88xx - 01 Apr, 2025 - 04:49PM

Have a separate phone, or use good sec ops if using main phone (passcode, hidden apps, no notifications) also be wary of ai on your phone it can grass you up unintentionally (reminder to message your IE, common places to visit etc).

Have a reason for being there, I’ve joined a gym in my fav hotel, so that if I ever did get caught, I’ve the perfect reason for attending.

Make sure you understand the situation when getting intimate. If one or both like to be rough, no marks etc. if you use protection, make sure you really wash the smell of latex that can linger for ages if you are still intimate with your OH.

Other than that, that’s about all you can do.

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Purple dreamer - 01 Apr, 2025 - 12:33PM

Find a nice quiet place that is good for both of you

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