Thoughtleader

About Me:

An intelligent, experienced dominant man. I want to take charge, control you and discipline you.

I'm experienced in this sort of thing, and real. I've done all of the standard kinky things—spanking, bondage and much more. But what really drives me is the mental, emotional connection between a dominant man and a submissive woman. I'm a red-blooded male but this is not just about sex or the bedroom for me. It's about an affair shot through with dominance and submission. I'm decisive, and authoritative, and demand respect.

To spell that out in clear, practical terms, I'm as interested in telling you when to sit and stand, in choosing your food and what you wear, and in speaking firmly to you, as I am in having you on your knees. Sex is just something I would use to dominate you further. If that sounds interesting to you, then it's worth saying hello.

I like traditional masculinity and femininity, and wants us very much to contrast in that way. If you don't like the idea of putting on a dress or skirt, then I'm not for you.

I'm also approachable and encouraging, and able to go gently with someone who's new to this sort of kinky dynamic. I'm experienced enough for two.

All my relationships have been kinky in varying degrees, and I'm in a kinky relationship now. Those relationships involve all the same ups and downs as vanilla relationships. I'm not looking to change my relationship status or yours.

I think there can be a tendency to think a man like me wants lots of women, but that's not what I'm looking for. I'm looking for regular meetings with one woman, every few weeks or couple of months. Both weekends and evenings work for me.

Ideal Partner:

An intelligent, submissive, feminine woman who wants to be with an intelligent, decisive, authoritative man. I tend to get on with shy and anxious women, and women who like to have decisions made for them and to be told what to do.

Other Interests:

Museums / Galleries, Music - Classical / Opera, Literature / History, Dancing, Computers / Internet, Water Sports, Theatre / Ballet, Travel / Sightseeing, Movies / Cinema, Food and Wine

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