Pakman100

About Me:

I’m here because I miss real connection - the kind that’s effortless, honest, and charged with a quiet kind of electricity. If you’ve ever had a conversation that stayed with you long after it ended, or a kiss that felt like a conversation in itself, then you’ll know what I mean.

I’ve had fulfilling connections before - deep, genuine relationships with women who brought warmth, fun, and meaning into my life. So this isn’t a new experiment for me, or a late realisation. I’m clear on what I value: mutual chemistry, emotional depth, and a space where we can just be, without judgement, pressure, or pretence.

I work in the non-profit space, which keeps me grounded and connected to something beyond myself. I live just outside London and spend weekdays in the city. Evenings are easiest for meeting, though weekends and the occasional daytime escape can absolutely happen with a little planning.

I travel abroad fairly often and if there’s a real connection, the idea of sharing an international getaway with someone who sees the world the way I do is something I’d love. Discovering a new place together, getting lost in unfamiliar streets, sharing private moments in public spaces… there’s something uniquely intimate about that.

As for intimacy, I’m open-minded and comfortable exploring. Sex isn’t just physical for me, it’s about trust, energy, and shared curiosity. I’m happy to try most things once (no pain or water play), but equally, I know that the simplest moments can be the most powerful when the chemistry is right. No particular kinks unless kissing counts. And if it does, then that’s definitely mine.

I stay active, eat well, and look after myself - not obsessively, just consistently. I’m not into drinking, drugs, smoking, or junk food. Physically, I’m 5’9”, fit, clean-shaven head, short greying beard. More importantly, I’m someone who shows up - calm, present, and quietly confident.

I’m reflective, emotionally aware, and I’ve learned how to be both steady and spontaneous. What I’m looking for is connection, not drama or distraction. Something grown-up, yes, but also fun, playful, and deeply satisfying.

My ideal night? A hotel room. Room service on the way. Music playing low. Laughter between kisses. Conversations that drift. A sense that time doesn’t matter.

My ideal city? Istanbul. It’s soulful, layered, and full of hidden corners. Like all the best connections.

Ideal Partner:

You’re confident, kind, and emotionally present. You know how to have fun, how to hold a real conversation, and how to be fully yourself when the space feels safe. You want something meaningful and sensual - not just surface-level fun, but something that’s got spark, substance, and warmth.

You’ve likely done this before - or at least thought it through - and you know how to navigate the balance between real closeness and necessary boundaries. You know how to keep things in perspective, and you’re not here to play games or chase chaos.

There’s no fixed “type” I’m drawn to. Attraction starts with energy and personality. That said, you look after your health, you feel good in your own skin, and you carry yourself with quiet confidence - that’s what stands out to me.

You can meet regularly. You enjoy staying in touch between meets. And you’re curious about building something that unfolds naturally without pressure, but with real intent.

If connection, closeness, and shared stillness sound good to you, if you crave something that feels exciting without being exhausting, then we might just click.

And if your idea of a perfect evening includes room service, deep conversation, kisses that last too long, and nowhere else to be, then we’re probably already on the same page.

Other Interests:

Nature, Hiking / Camping, Literature / History, Travel / Sightseeing, Volunteer / Charity, Movies / Cinema, Cooking

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