Comments (117)

Sandypops - 26 Sep, 2023 - 01:49AM

MystryMe, I think we should be able to be honest here. Honour amongst thieves and all that
We all live a lie in our real lives (unless we're one of the singletons on here) and personally I hate living such a lie, so why would I lie here when there is no need to.

And in answer to the question, trust your gut instinct and, if you get good vibes, meet. I like to send and receive natural selfies and will sometimes do a video call or 'phone call before meeting.

And yes, sometimes meeting doesn't go as planned, but it's the only way to know if the chemistry needed for an affair is there.

ClassyLady77 - 25 Sep, 2023 - 10:54PM

Only one way and that’s to meet them.. ASAP. IF they don’t meet then they’re just keyboard warriors..

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Naughty in NW - 25 Sep, 2023 - 10:37PM

As valid as this question remains, why does the site keep bumping up three year old original posts to the top of the list for us to chew over again and again?

Cum on IE, your profits must surely allow for some 'fresh material' as you charge all males a hefty monthly fee. Just sayin'

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logicboy - 25 Sep, 2023 - 09:33PM

Agree with everyone who says that meeting up is what this is all about. If you can't or won't meet for a coffee then you are either kidding yourself or me... Imho

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Paula99 - 25 Sep, 2023 - 07:44PM

TBH

BeckY

Dotty

Totally agree 😁

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1494077 - 25 Sep, 2023 - 06:56PM

For some, a quick meet works. But for me, spending more time getting to know virtually first, is a better use of time, especially since I always seem to be so short of it!

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1597404 - 25 Sep, 2023 - 04:52PM

You can only really tell if you meet. If someone says they can tell by messages and assumptions, they are deluding themselves.

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Will_CR0 - 25 Sep, 2023 - 04:34PM

I've found that the people chatting all the time either a too nervous about meeting someone in person of they are just making up things. I have been on endless chats that the person always has an excuse they can't meet up. It's best to video chat or call just to be sure you are talking to a real person. Video chat is good because you can set up an anonymous account and if you want you can leave the camera off at first.

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1408586 - 25 Sep, 2023 - 02:59PM

I think we can get a good feel of someone we’re chatting to is our type of person. But agree the only way to find out is to meet. And meeting is what this is about anyway!!!

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Secret Dom - 25 Sep, 2023 - 02:24PM

You can’t, until you actually meet. It’s easy to chat via here or whatever method you use but it’s not the same as in person.

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