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1586116 - 14 Mar, 2023 - 12:37AM

You just have to go for it! I met someone I had been chatting with and really like him! Not sure if we will see each other again or not but it was worth it.

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Foryourpleasure - 16 Jul, 2022 - 09:40PM

In all situations work life romance always trust your gut 😉 It's your inbuilt defense system 👍

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Sexy Senorita xo - 16 Jul, 2022 - 09:18PM

There's no way of knowing but I'm glad I trusted my gut instinct too, like many others have stated. I don't know if it's beginner's luck but this IE & I are having some truly wild & fun times. Take a chance! (Gone for oldest questions in the Flirt Forum cause the others are well🥱)

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1425095 - 07 Dec, 2020 - 08:22PM

From past experience they say what you want to hear, it’s not until later down the line you find out the real person. A nasty player in my case unfortunately

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1392431 - 19 Nov, 2020 - 10:05PM

I always trust my gut instinct in these situations and it’s never let me down x

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1386735 - 19 Nov, 2020 - 07:34PM

You know sometimes you can’t even tell when you meet. Believe it or not, men are special creatures, they have this thing called bullshit which some guys can manage to use a lot of.
You’ve always got to go with your gut...always

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gemini2310 - 19 Nov, 2020 - 04:42PM

I can never tell from phone calls most are different when you meet and I never go on photos alone theres slot more to attraction than a photo well there is for me anyway

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1413266 - 19 Nov, 2020 - 03:18PM

As others have said, have a phone call asap after seeing a photo and still liking them. I have found a real sense of who they are after chatting. Almost never got it wrong. If there is anything to be wary of, a phone call should sort it out for you.

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Teresa di Vicenzo - 13 May, 2020 - 04:36PM

When we’re allowed to do so, a meet-up for a quick coffee is a must. Then you can both suss each other out. You’ll both be on your best behaviour but that’s the only way you’ll get a feel of them (so to speak ..!!). After that, meet for lunch. You should both have decided by then whether you want to spend more time together. The attraction will have been instant at that first meet, the second meet us just to confirm.

I agree with the person who said to get recent photos. I hate it when I’m sent a photo which is clearly a few years old - like I’m not going to notice if / when we meet up! Actually, that happened to me, a bloke claimed to be 58 but I later found out (after the lunch) that he was actually 68. The age didn’t bother me but the fact he’d lied to me really pissed me off. He was a bye-bye.

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1117169 - 13 May, 2020 - 04:24PM

By meeting them sooner rather than later then many more times, at different times, locations and in different contexts, doing varied things and having real open, honest in depth wide ranging conversations with them.

How else?

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