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Hi world of IE! I am new here, a little nervous and excited. Just wondering if you have any tips for someone venturing into this world for the first time… 

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Secretaccomplice4u - 08 Aug, 2020 - 12:57PM

Sexsy1xxx,

> "Morning just message me and I will show you the ropes"

Just the ropes or the rest of your equipment ?


1401704 - 08 Aug, 2020 - 11:07AM

Hi fellow newbie ..it’s my third day ..

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1366991 - 08 Aug, 2020 - 10:45AM

If you’re talking to multiple people be honest about it and I’d someone says it’s a no respect that


1353301 - 08 Aug, 2020 - 10:36AM

Morning just message me and I will show you the ropes 😂

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1376462 - 08 Aug, 2020 - 09:26AM

I be honest in my conversation and share the password sooner to make sure there is a connection rather than having endless conversation and you realise it’s a wrong person


De8raT - 04 Aug, 2020 - 08:18PM

JumpinJack20
I used to respond to all messages I received. More often than not it would be a polite thanks but no thanks...... unfortunately some do not take no for an answer and won’t respect my decision. If I say someone is too young for me or just not my type I feel that should be respected, but I have had messages come back telling me I’m shallow, should give them a chance that I’m being a snob or very picky! As a result I now very rarely respond to messages unless a bit of thought has gone into them (rather than “Hi how are you.” Or the most frequent “Hi how are you finding this site”) or something in the message or profile has piqued my interest. It may seem harsh, but to be honest I don’t need the stress.

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Ariel123 - 04 Aug, 2020 - 06:59PM

Protect your privacy.
Be clear on what you are looking for and expectations on time/communication frequency.


1397366 - 04 Aug, 2020 - 06:31PM

Hi again London Lady,

Don't worry, I'll be just fine. I'm not as precious as some and don't offend easily. Like I said I'm just highlighting bad manners. Btw, It's fine to disagree, it keeps it interesting xx

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1400691 - 04 Aug, 2020 - 12:49PM

Have you thought the writer might be dyslexic and the severeness of their dyslexia might impact their ability to write well written message...

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1332870 - 03 Aug, 2020 - 10:43PM

Jumping Jack

We'll have to agree to disagree. If someone can't word a message properly, I'm not here to educate them.

Try being a woman on here bombarded with rubbish messages. Us women don't have the time to reply to them if they're not what we're looking for. And yes it's effort for us, we have better things to do.

you might need to toughen up on here

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