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1364794 - 29 Apr, 2020 - 02:43PM

why can’t I indicate that I’m looking for ladies as well as men? Some people swing both ways...

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MatureWorcsBBW - 29 Apr, 2020 - 02:35PM

I disagree.
A no reply is definitely a sign of no interest and it saves all manner of unpleasantness.

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1367118 - 29 Apr, 2020 - 02:35PM

So I messaged a new member yesterday she actually shared her photo pw straight away which I dont recommend obligingly I shared mine heard nothing back so just messaged her back to see if yes or no and got a message saying I was blocked! Now i dont consider myself a model but I was offended by that response:(

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AAGilfan - 29 Apr, 2020 - 02:26PM

With regard to the profile pic, you do have to be careful if you are being discreet so pasting your pic all over the place is not always sensible. Its nice to have at least a bit of chat with each other before someone launches in for a request for a pw. I accept that people might not want to waste time if they think the lack of physical chemistry would overcome the conversational chemistry. But pictures often don't do people justice - they are 2 dimensional whereas conversation will give you a more all round feel.

As regards names, one v funny much older ex-IE of mine had a particular suffix to her name. She actually used that suffix on different profiles she had on here & u could tell it was her as her profile barely changed - alth0 her age did! :-) But that was all part of her being a great character, funny, loads of fun both in & out of bed & great company. We are still in touch text regularly meet now and again for a drink (and a little kiss). That's the beauty of this site. You get to meet great peop

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1380712 - 29 Apr, 2020 - 02:24PM

And no a “ no reply “ isn’t the best way to deal with it. Just be honest, it goes a long way.

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1260412 - 29 Apr, 2020 - 02:23PM

I can't decide if this site has gone downhill in the last ten years, or if it is actually me who has gone downhill in the last ten years... I definitely got more interest years ago.

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1382125 - 29 Apr, 2020 - 02:22PM

Just joined, will update mine in time.

1380712 - 29 Apr, 2020 - 02:22PM

I get blown out by 99% of the ladies on here but I never take offence. I thank them for their honesty and wish them all the best.......their loss I reckon 😂😂😂

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1378738 - 29 Apr, 2020 - 02:21PM

What are some really good message headers that have made you go straight to that message rather than any other?

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1358651 - 29 Apr, 2020 - 02:20PM

Hi!
I personally believe that names don’t matter that much but photos may be the key to start the conversation.
It’s better to clarify the vision and then start getting into conversation as there could be the case that you start the conversation and start liking the other side and then u don’t like the picture! That could be the awkward situation to put someone off due to the looks, could feel offensive,specially when u r getting to know each other.
But again, everyone has a different priority!
When I say the pictures, preferably the face or the overall picture than the private parts!!