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tea_coffee_me_ - 16 May, 2020 - 03:21PM

"PecanPie - like the story of the old lady and the bag of bones. "

I am sitting comfortably, (with a coffee), you may begin :-)

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1383637 - 16 May, 2020 - 03:11PM

If you're being "judged" by someone, there is an easy solution to your first world problem..

Use the block button...problem solved

NAI.
Enjoy the weekend.

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1117169 - 16 May, 2020 - 03:01PM

@Thumos

There definitely are quite a few " Professional girlfriends" on here as you diplomatically and euphemistically call them, and not just in London.

You can easily spot them because they are usually in their 20s or 30s, specify an unrealistic age range ( 21-70!), talk about wanting " The finer things in life", being "Wined and dined" and " Wanting to be spoiled" and list their interests as "Shopping" 😉

I'm not sure they should be on here really.

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851951 - 16 May, 2020 - 02:51PM

Pecan pie
Exotic Orchid was correct in what she was saying...just own it Pecan 🤔🙄

ExoticOrchid - 16 May, 2020 - 02:01PM

Ooops ... looks like I have hit a raw nerve there! 🤔😂

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PecanPie - 16 May, 2020 - 01:50PM

Hey @ExoticOrchid... it’s ok to filter the rest of my statement to make you sound intelligent but if u can read the statement that follows, it explains. Yes I am married and I am cheating, and I am on a site for married people looking for affairs, isn’t that obvious?
I realise you are one of the single ones here so I can understand this thread is touchy and it applies to you like the story of the old lady and the bag of bones. Goodluck in your sojourn.

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Thumos - 16 May, 2020 - 01:42PM

To be fair, I've found over the years (yes, I pop by here from time to time!) that there is a small but significant minority of single women here.

When I've asked why, the answer has almost always been along the lines that it's more honest & open here, and less hassle.

I make a bit of an exception for London, where there seems to be a further subset of younger women who seem to be setting themselves out as 'professional girlfriends'.

As White Sage says, you can always tweak your marital status. I personally would have suggested divorced or separated, rather than married, but I don't think it really matters that much.

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ExoticOrchid - 16 May, 2020 - 01:34PM

t_c_m_ 01:24

Hahaha ... yes ... ditto!!! 😂

Notice how their previous ones always ended because the women fell in love with them! 🤔🙄

tea_coffee_me_ - 16 May, 2020 - 01:24PM

I nearly had the opposite problem....

Seeing someone.... they said that they were ending their marriage.
I said I was sorry to hear that however our relationship would not change, ie increase in any way, never heard from them again.

A few first meetings men have said that previous ones had ended as 'she' wanted too much, fell in love with him.

I said that will not happen with me. I think it had burst a few egos as I have never seen any of them again!

Enjoy :-)

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1217767 - 16 May, 2020 - 01:08PM

Either way - if you are getting hassled for being single then it’s no bother to list yourself as ‘married’ on your profile.
Profile readers are not actual friends as yet...nobody needs to know all of the details. A profile need only give an overview for initial attraction purposes. It doesn’t need actual specifics or your actual status or life history.