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tender_rock - 16 May, 2020 - 01:05PM

On a different note, I haven't seen any dating site for singles that allows a married person to create profile. Married people are not welcome there.Period.

We all are human, with flaws, weaknesses, temptations, and we do judge others on various levels all the time, however some of us are very good in hiding that.

To the OC - best to be clear about what you are looking for from the first message.

"Shag and let shag, discreetly!"

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1217767 - 16 May, 2020 - 12:59PM

I think it is hard for some people to understand ( especially my Mother ) that being single in your late forties is actually really liberating and good fun.

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1371726 - 16 May, 2020 - 12:57PM

We all judge it is human nature.
We are judging as soon as we open someones profile.
We judge on their messages or response if any
We judge on their picture and age
It is inherent and subconscious whether we are aware of it or not
It's life

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Teresa di Vicenzo - 16 May, 2020 - 12:29PM

I’m married. I would never connect with a single IE for the simple reason (in my head) that I want him to feel he as if he has as much at stake to lose as I do. That’s not in a ‘he may fall more heavily than me’ scenario but simply an awareness of what we can / cannot do and where we can / cannot go. which is likely to mirror my own thoughts. It’s just easier!

I get that there are single people on here, and that’s fine. As long as they’re open and honest about that, and those they meet are ok with if, so what!

I can see that for some having a single IE would work for reasons laid out by previous commenters. No judging here, just not my own choice. Each to their own. Stay safe. ..

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ExoticOrchid - 16 May, 2020 - 12:19PM

PecanPie 12:00PM

"I wouldn't judge"

Well sweetie you just have! 🙄🤣

Each to their own. You cheat on your husband. I don't judge you for that.

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PecanPie - 16 May, 2020 - 12:00PM

I am not single and as much as I wouldn’t judge any single person on here as they may have their reasons; I would be sceptical on why they choose a site meant for married people seeking out affairs and not other generic dating sites. I for one wouldn’t want any one single to hit me up. It’s too risky. I
Often think some single guys / or ladies on here just want to experience being with a married person as they often say “ it’s not hassle to maintain the relationship “

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1367873 - 16 May, 2020 - 10:55AM

If your intention is not to ruin anyone's marriage then you don't have to worry too much and if anything goes wrong then it won't be your fault.

Although you might meet someone that you would fall for without even knowing and that's when it starts getting complicated.

Being single or attached is a blessing as long as you are happy with it so make the most of it.

ExoticOrchid - 16 May, 2020 - 10:28AM

My profile is pretty clear … I know what this site is about and I know why I'm here and I have no interest in anything more. I like being single.

Those who judge [females] are jealous of my freedom as far as I'm concerned.

Those who worry I'll get too attached to them [males] are flattering themselves … purleeese!!! [eye roll] In fact it's been the opposite in some cases.

People here seem to think single people have no life apart from here! This is not my whole life. I have a "real" life with family and friends.

As for Bunny Boilers … believe it or not they are not the sole preserve of single women … don't tar everyone just because of a few deranged ones. Married women can also be Bunny Boilers as no doubt some of you have already found out.

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1117169 - 16 May, 2020 - 10:27AM

Because, to put it bluntly " You have no skin in the game"

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Bugwithone - 16 May, 2020 - 10:25AM

I hate to point this out... We all judge!

This comment will be judged by everyone that reads it!
Some will agree with it and Like it! Then maybe check me out! After they have stopped laughing, they may contact me!
Others will think I’m a complete prat, check me out, throw up and block me!

That is life!!!

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