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senzeni1 - 12 Jun, 2020 - 01:05AM

Accomodate each other be honest from the beginning of it all

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1389951 - 06 Jun, 2020 - 09:56PM

Is 4 years enough? A wonderful time with a wonderful lady...still friends after 7 years....

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Your Sexy Woman - 05 Jun, 2020 - 11:19PM

A connection
Mad, passionate sex
Laughter
Escapism
No demands
Honesty ... yes really
Authenticity
Appreciation of the other

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Niceandnaughty - 05 Jun, 2020 - 03:03PM

I had a 5 year, affair with a friend and work colleague, It was grounded by 2 things, honesty we both knew it wasn't going to be forever, and friendship neither was going to go public no matter what. We both got what we wanted but knew we couldn't get a relationship between us

Deshilonda - 05 Jun, 2020 - 02:30PM

Discretion
Appreciative of boundaries and limitations
Its for steaming off from busy life so it has not to be draining
And of-course good sex ;-)

1387272 - 05 Jun, 2020 - 01:37PM

I have no idea! They seem to read your profile and what you are after. Then contact you and you reconfirm. Then you meet and tell them again and it’s all fine. Then later it all becomes too much ‘commitment’ or effort
Meh

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Bubbly5216 - 04 Jun, 2020 - 09:44PM

Honesty is very important need to talk to each other and ascertain what you both want. Also the spark has to be there. More than that enjoy each other company and good luck

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1388392 - 04 Jun, 2020 - 07:39PM

Laughter, honesty with saying what you both want, so be clear in your own mind too about that, respecting each others situation whatever that may be and more laughter!

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Yorkshirerugby - 04 Jun, 2020 - 09:02AM

I think its like a pair of new shoes that you get. You have to try them on for size, if you like them and they fit you well, you'll want to wear them more and they become part of you. The more you wear them the comfort they get until they maybe become your favourite shoes.

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AA1RON - 04 Jun, 2020 - 12:02AM

Hi everyone,

I'd say initially for me it's been the Connection, Attraction, Understanding, Discretion..

If you and your IE are happy and choose to go for a longer encounter as I did then it's about agreeing some basic rules and sticking to them.
Also communication, honesty and trust which develops over time not after a few messages. Lastly try not cheating on your IE and if both in agreement come off here. Otherwise make it clear that you want to play the field and sick to casual or short term. It's best to be clear from the start..

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