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There and back - 03 Jun, 2020 - 09:41AM

Tell you when I get and IE lol

Lisaxoxo - 02 Jun, 2020 - 04:02PM

Taking in the consideration that long last affair is what you are after, I have some tips.
I am not the ONS kind girl and I make it clear from the first contact.
At least a lunch before an intimate encounter (that will just occur another day).

I like to use all my senses while fucking or making love.
Not a chance to have good and meaningful sex with someone you know nothing about it unless it is a fetich you are looking for. (Ie sex with strangers etc)

Once you find someone special, you can set some boundaries and push them as you go.

Every relationship needs to be nurtured especially an affair.
You must trust the other person.

My body is very special and it is a privilege to the other person if I let them in.

I look after my lovers as they were my boyfriends without expectations.

I have a busy life, full-time job, kids, husband and hobbies, and one very special and important person at the side with whom I can share part of my life too.

The secret for a long-lasting affair is simple,

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Chelseaguy12 - 23 May, 2020 - 06:26PM

being honest from the start. it'll result in mind-boggling sex.

if that fails its your fault

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1385833 - 21 May, 2020 - 02:52PM

I agree with lots of the comments on here. As well as the initial attraction there needs to be more to it than just a mutually satisfying afternoon and I would hope that there would be an emotional and intellectual connection too!!

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phillyd - 21 May, 2020 - 10:27AM

I think Exoticorchid has it right.

There has to be more than just sex in the relationship. A friendship has to be there, along with the necessary chemistry.

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1117169 - 21 May, 2020 - 07:47AM

@TTT

You are not a fool. You are a guy with sensitivity and feelings, who is not looking to have a quick emotionless robotic fuck in a hotel room twice a month.

Do many people on this site really want that? I certainly cannot imagine why any man would be a member when there are more expedient ways of achieving that.

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TrevorTroubleTwo - 20 May, 2020 - 01:55PM

Looking seriously, sex without at least some degree of friendship, what an awful thought, any male or female can commit the act to please themselves or their partner. I would like to believe that I would never just love em and leave them.

Surely there must be a degree of feeling, even though you acknowledge they will return to a long term partner. I for one am not a machine to be tuned on and off, but hope to please and leave a lasting memory.

Yes I am a bit of a fool, but that's how I am.

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ExoticOrchid - 20 May, 2020 - 10:25AM

Amongst other things, you've got to genuinely LIKE each other if you want a long lasting IE … if it is purely sex without friendship, then it is not going to last long.

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1342868 - 20 May, 2020 - 08:38AM

Enjoy the secret liaisons for as long as possible, be discreet and keep things light hearted and enjoyable it’s supposed to be a break from daily life so make the most of it

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1360475 - 20 May, 2020 - 12:04AM

How can you ever be sure he is who he says he is !! ....
Woman are very good at picking things up , I.e.our gut feelings...
If it doesn't feel right , then it probably isn't so get out while you've got the chance ..

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